Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Please give me some date idea's

timmylivingalie

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I live in a very small town with very little to do. We have no coffee shops, bars, clubs, movie theaters. One girl is close to my age and another is late teens possibly early twenties.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sex , hiking , fishing , hunting , idk , whats the geographical location? near the sea? or in the mountains? or , smack damn in the middle of effing nowhere?
 

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Try something original but not totally outlandish.

I'd try to guess their personality also; if you're dealing with a conservative girl, a classical dinner and a movie could be OK , I guess.

As long as you're OK with paying.
 

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If you're in the middle of nowhere, it's mostly about enjoying nature as the other guys have implied.

Do you have any hobbies? Involve them. Consider day trips to more populated areas. Decide to build something and have them participate. Build or buy an RC Drone and take them out to fly it. Good old-fashioned picnics.
 

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Wow, your town doesn't even have a coffee shop? That is crazy! I think that throws out my suggestions of playing pool or mini golf.

Maybe cow tipping, playing the banjo on the back porch?

I'd say just go explore somewhere cool. There has to be somewhere, like with cool views, an old run down place or something?

And don't pay for dinner!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Slickster

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Hop on some bicycles and ride somewhere interesting.

Is there a lake or river nearby? Canoeing, kayaking, fishing, etc.

Take a trip to a nearby city for more options. Also gets you out of smallville to avoid the other girl as well.
 

timmylivingalie

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Thanks gentlemen. We do have a lake but neither seems the type that would like that sort of thing.
 

Slickster

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I've done the canoe date many times and I know what you mean about girls who don't fit that mold.

You'd be surprised though how well this date idea works. Pack a lunch and paddle someplace private. Have some music, go for a swim, have a couple drinks, and try to escalate.

In my experience even the most princessy of chicks eat this sh!t up.
 
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