Please give me some advice asap

[daytona]

Ok guys, I need help with this one. I'll try and keep this as short as possible.

So girl moves back here, haven't seen her for a few years. Hung out with her a few days ago and we got along great, she was giving me IOI's left right and center. She even left something of hers in my car, obviously on purpose. I call her today to hang out and she tells me she is going out with her brother's friends. I said ok and told her to meet me in the evening. She told me this guy kept insisting she go to a party with him. She told me she doesn't want to go because she's a good girl and doesn't drink, blah blah but she feels bad not to go. I played it cool and told her to call me if she changes her mind in an indifferent tone. Keep in mind she is pretty shy, doesn't drink or smoke and I'm pretty sure she's a virgin.

What do you guys make of this situation and what should I do? I didn't want to sound desperate to hang out with her so I told her to have fun. Thanks in advance

 

[horaholic]

She was hinting for you to offer her a date, dummy. Call her right now ansd say "hey, if you dont feel like going to that party, You can come hang out with me..."

Or..."Hey, ditch that party of yours and come do something better with me."


Its not sounding desperate, its sounding like a MAN who takes the initiative, and goes for what he wants.

 

[daytona]

Thanks for the input, I just texted her. If she still says no, how should I play it off?

 

[scrouds]

You should cry over the phone. Pour your heart out, tell her you love her, she's the only one for you, and that if she goes to the party you will never be able to love again.

 

[prairiedog24]

You should cry over the phone. Pour your heart out, tell her you love her, she's the only one for you, and that if she goes to the party you will never be able to love again.

lol, something about this thread almost made me post something identical to this! :rockon:

 

[horaholic]

You should cry over the phone. Pour your heart out, tell her you love her, she's the only one for you, and that if she goes to the party you will never be able to love again.

If you do this, be sure to have 'Im all out of love' from Air Supply playing in the background. Jeffy from RSD, actually does this, jokingly, of course, if a girl doesnt answer her phone. He says it gets pretty awkward if the message ends before he can let her know its just a joke.

 

[prairiedog24]

lol, that's hilarious. I've got to remember that. When I first met her my girl kept accusing me of "wanting her bad" and blah blah blah and I couldn't shut her up. Of course I'd deny it and say stuff like "oh come on, you know I find you revolting. 5'9 frame, long blonde hair, disgusting..." but she kept playing the game.

I should have totally busted out that move.