Please explain buyers remorse

[snackwitch]

Hi question for the more experienced members -

What is and what causes buyers remorse when it comes to females? Like for example, when a girl gives you a number and seems initially excited but does not reply to invitations afterwards?

Or more puzzling for me, when you have escalated to at least a make out session or grind or maybe even a *******... but she becomes busy when trying to call her afterwards?

 

[snackwitch]

Ok... if I undertand you correctly the girl

-could be sexually attracted to me but feels like I have low social value
-she feels guilty about it
-could have wanted stimulation or fun for the moment

So there is at least a base level attraction but for social reasons she decides to not go any deeper with it?

 

[sodbuster]

Buyers remorse is she's not interested in you after sex or being sexual with you. Anything else is not considered "buying". SO if she isn't interested after grinding on you-we went out and had "fun",but now he's just interested in sex, and I'm not. In order to avoid it, you need to build more rapport-so she knows you want more than just sex.[even if you don't]

 

[horaholic]

Have you ever got drunk and banged a fat, or ugly chick? How you feel about it the next day is buyers remorse.

It happens by

- her getting caught up in the heat of the moment and fvcking you.
- being drunk
- being too vulnerable, or lonely
- you having good game for the time being
- fvcking you before she was really ready. This one is avoidable, by establishing trust and comfort beforehand. This applies to 'date' situations, more than bar pickup scenarios.