"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Please explain AFC
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
ExploringOne
Don Juan
^^^ROFL.:crackup:Francisco d'Anconia said:
I actually think of AFCs as god's gift to DJs. Nothing like stealing a girl from a guy who's been buying her drinks all night :kick:
Francisco d'Anconia said:
LOL!!!
Okay for the question.
Average Frustrated Chump.
It basically refers to a guy without game. He is not in the driving seat when it comes to women. The girls he gets (if he gets any) are those he gets "lucky" with. He's confused and doesn't know how to treat a woman and basically stumbles thru it all.
The purpose of this site is to escape AFCdom... to be able to see a woman you want and go and get her and keep her for as long as he wants.
CrunchyNut
Don Juan
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Yeah, let the AFCs get them drunk and bore them to tears before we swoop in and do our magic!ExploringOne said:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Killjoy... :woo:Jay Jay said: