Please critique my latest text game, need to know if I'm on the right track

[RoadToGlory]

So can someone please check out and critique my latest text game. Met this girl last week, she flaked on my attempt for a meetup. Texted her tonight again.

Me: Hey, you have a wild wknd?
Her: Ahaha, not even. Drank one night, but nothing that fun. You?
Me: Damn, sounds like you missed out. You should have come out with me fri, I had a awesome time (Note: I did, partied it up hardcore)
Her: Awe! Ya I should haveeee
Me: What u end up doing on fri?
Her: Nothing!
Me: What?!?! So you ditched me to do nothing? Tsk tsk, bad girl
Her: Sorryyyy! My friends were lame.
Me: Lol. Well now you owe me. What are you gonna do to make it up?
Her: Oh I don't know. I have clearly hurt you deeply. Maybe we shall chill this weekend (Note: this won't work for me, have plans already)
Me: Maybe, anything's possible. If it was earlier I'd have told u to jump on the bus and come over here.
Her: (Note: she texted back 15 mins later) Sorry i was in the showerrr. Where do you live? Sorry if I've asked already
Me: I live near *****, right by the bus stop
Her: Oh ok. Like ***** station? I'm in that part of town regularly. And I'll be out there everyday starting next week.
Me: Just 1 stop from there. What are you doing out here next week?
Her: I'm moving.
Me: oh, ok
Her: Ya haha. I hope you aren't just trying to get laid. Cuz that won't happen
Me: Lol, have no idea what your talking about
Her: Ya right. Can't fool me.
Me: You gonna be around my part of town tmrw?
Her: I could be lol if you want to hang out that is
Me: Yeah, I could hang out for a bit. Only a few hours though. I'm currently working on a big project.
Her: Ya that's fine. After tomorrow my week is pretty much done. Writing a easy text Thursday but that's it.
Me: Cool, what time could you be out here for?
Her: Tomorrow? At like 4?
Me: Cool, I can be out for 3 so that works. You wanna chill and watch a movie, anything in particular you like? (Note: I have a **** ton of movie on the computer hooked to my tv in my room)
Her: Ya that sounds good to me (Note: what I get from this is she doesn't care about the movie. DTF?)
Me: K. Hitting the sack, conquering the world early tmrw. Text me when your on your way and I'll meet you (Note: her text will be my cue to hit the liquor store and grab her from the bus)
Her: Sounds good. Cya then.

What do you guys think? This girl is practice for me, both for gaming and ****ing. I actually met a girl I like more, but I need to game other girls to keep from focusing on her.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Flaked = interest not high enough.

No counter offer = interest not high enough.

You have to chase her through text, because she doesn't make initial contact after she was the one who flaked = low interest.

There is no such thing as "text game" until your real/live game is tight, then you will be able to basically do anything by text and have it work.

Why are you asking her by text? if you asked her to hang out with you in person, you should have had a pretty good idea of her interest level, and therefore know when chicks are very likely to flake on you, due to low interest.

Why are you continuing to text and act desperate with someone who flaked on you? Practice only works if you are learning and moving on. It will only work if you go try your new knowledge on new broads, not on somebody who can take your or leave you; more like has absolutely no interest.

You should just put her on probation and have her pursue you (unlikely, as you already managed to lower her IL even more than it already was). Tell her to bring you coffee, food, dessert, etc. Stop giving her options and asking her what she wants; it comes across as non-assertive and having no initiative or plan.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

It was good, Just try not to text so much. Keep it short and too the point. You also need to be asking about dates over the phone or in person. Not through text.

 

[RoadToGlory]

Flaked = interest not high enough.

No counter offer = interest not high enough.

You have to chase her through text, because she doesn't make initial contact after she was the one who flaked = low interest.

There is no such thing as "text game" until your real/live game is tight, then you will be able to basically do anything by text and have it work.

Why are you asking her by text? if you asked her to hang out with you in person, you should have had a pretty good idea of her interest level, and therefore know when chicks are very likely to flake on you, due to low interest.

Why are you continuing to text and act desperate with someone who flaked on you? Practice only works if you are learning and moving on. It will only work if you go try your new knowledge on new broads, not on somebody who can take your or leave you; more like has absolutely no interest.

You should just put her on probation and have her pursue you (unlikely, as you already managed to lower her IL even more than it already was). Tell her to bring you coffee, food, dessert, etc. Stop giving her options and asking her what she wants; it comes across as non-assertive and having no initiative or plan.

Well sorry that I'm not an expert like you sir. At least I'm trying. And where in the above texts does it show that texting her tonight caused her interest level to drop more?

 

[Chickfight]

Good advice so far. Too much bla bla bla, but you got the result. It all depends on your game when you meet her. You're pretty on the fence right now, so expect a lot of sh!ttests like this:

Her: Ya haha. I hope you aren't just trying to get laid. Cuz that won't happen
Me: Lol, have no idea what your talking about
Her: Ya right. Can't fool me.
Me: You gonna be around my part of town tmrw?

You handled it well in the text, but she's gonna test if you keep your cool in person. Just brush it off like you did in the text and plow forward. Also remember to escalate physically.

 

[runner83]

I stopped reading after 10 lines.

Much too long.

Keep it concise as possible.

I also disagree with the comment about dates having to be lined up by phone, text is fine.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

I stopped reading after 10 lines.

Much too long.

Keep it concise as possible.

I also disagree with the comment about dates having to be lined up by phone, text is fine.

Maybe they can do the "date" by text too. Point is, person to person interaction > phone interaction > email/text interaction > No Interaction; this is true specially when you are just learning how to deal with women/dating situations. It is apparent the OP was all over the place with his "text game", and the flaking will continue with this one.

"Dates" SHOULD, not necesarily need to, be lined up in person, specially if your game is not tight. If you know what you're doing, you can snail mail her, and she'll be eager to meet up with you.

 

[runner83]

Maybe they can do the "date" by text too. Point is, person to person interaction > phone interaction > email/text interaction > No Interaction; this is true specially when you are just learning how to deal with women/dating situations. It is apparent the OP was all over the place with his "text game", and the flaking will continue with this one.

"Dates" SHOULD, not necesarily need to, be lined up in person, specially if your game is not tight. If you know what you're doing, you can snail mail her, and she'll be eager to meet up with you.

Mate, I agree with that.

If your text game is not tight, prob best not to do it that way.

Just, for the love of God, DO NOT set dates up through facebook!

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Well sorry that I'm not an expert like you sir. At least I'm trying. And where in the above texts does it show that texting her tonight caused her interest level to drop more?

So you ask for a critique, then can't handle the feedback? Should I have just pvssy-footed and told you nothing useful? Ok, I re-read my post, and I was a little rough on you. Don't take it personal. I just get annoyed these days by all the obvious BS guys have to go through and put up with. There was a time I didn't see these same things when they happened to me.

It was not the texting that caused her interest to drop, it was you, your initial context of how you have gone about this "date request", you putting up with her flaking. The actual content is the least of your problems. I am talking about the part whre you are making plans for a movie, and start accomodating her by asking her what type of movie she preffers, etc. Don't expect THIS ONE to come around at this point, although if she actually shows up, you do have a chance. More importantly, take this interaction as a learning experience.

Your text would be just fine if you already had another 4+ plates spinning, and you were just sitting on this one and just have a "Whatever happens, happens", "take it or leave it" attitude. It is when you pull away, that you start to regain some of that initial interest she might have had when she gave you her number. You seem to realize this already.

You are right, you are not an expert, and I would think you are here to learn. How will you handle rejecting from these flakes if you can't deal with another man just being bold with you and cutting to the chase. My last piece of advice: TRY IN PERSON (with the next one). Get comfortable with the whole process. More importantly, go try out what you learn with new broads.

 

[d!ckmojo]

First up, there was some pretty smooth c+f in there, esp. in the first few texts, and it worked.

HOWEVER

My impression was that you didn't really express a strong frame of your own; i.e. you were all like "Yeah, blah, anything's possible, blah, do you wanna chill? what time can you chill? what movie do you wanna watch? blah blah blah"

I think its always more commanding and impressive if you take a firm control of the situation and tell her str8 up what's going to happen. She may not want to follow along with your plans, but at least you get a good indicator of her IL~ as in if her IL is high, and she genuinely can't follow along with the plans you've outlined, she will make a counter proposal that can work, and your job just got that much easier.

But she is def not DTF at this stage if she's saying stuff like "I hope you aren't just trying to get laid. Cuz that won't happen"

When chicks say that, they actually really mean it, and in the absence of alcohol or a mutha-fvcking eye-popping, jaw-dropping game changer, she will attempt to keep her word for now, and a movie in your bedroom isn't going to change that.

But it can be changed over time~ u just gotta be super smooth, c+f (which you seem to be good at) and ultra laid back attitude, while still pushing that kino barrier hard.