"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Please consider being a little more strict

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Firstly, my sincere apologies to all mods who had to endure reading the "dont use anti-perspirants" thread, while I didn't post it, I did post something out of anger that I later edited but alas I was quoted lol


Secondly, I really think there should be a ZERO TOLERANCE policy when it comes to racism, specially when it comes to things like stuartscott said, that was way out of line, please be a little more stringent with people.

I hate to see the board infused with so much negativity and hatred (all caused by sexual frustration probably) it's a real waste of time, and it encourages others to be the same.

I think everyone needs to contribute a little more to nurturing a respectful environment where people are not attacked at the drop of a dime, where we can exchange opinions and discuss things without letting our emotions run wild.


peace and love to all

DR

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"Conclusions arrived at through reasoning have very little or no influence in altering the course of our lives. Hence, the countless examples of people who have the clearest convictions and yet act diametrically against them time and time again; and have as the only explanation for their behavior the idea that to err is human." Carlos Castaneda - The Fire From Within

"It is the responsibility of the strong to help the weak become strong" - Harlan Ellison
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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