"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sometimes i just feel like busting on a girl playfully, and if she likes it, i just wanna bend down - put my hands around her thighs - pick her up - and say - "we have a lot to talk about :) who are you?"...Or something like that...It would be so cool but with all this "going slow" technique put in my brain, I'm kinda chickened out to do this..

I'm pretty sure if I'm looking and feeling good, she would not feel that repulsed by it..

Do you guys think it would be okay?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i think its called going caveman. Now everything has a freaking technical term.
 
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r0cky said:
I think its worth a try. Go out and experiment then come back to us with your findings.
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Its not a new technique that i thought of. I ALWAYS feel the urge to just be playful and charming and pick them up and say something magical. :p

I'll have to be more aware and conscious, if I actually try this. I do day game, you know.
 
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I think I've got my answer. Its always OK if you believe it is OK. I might try it in my next pickups. Thnks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's always okay to do something like this, if you hit it off sufficiently with a girl. But just feeling like this in your mind is not enough. We all can imagine ourselves to be the great guy that can pull something like this off. But we need practice to be able to do it for real. To feel comfortable being and acting that way. Go out there and practise. :)
 
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