"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sometimes i just feel like busting on a girl playfully, and if she likes it, i just wanna bend down - put my hands around her thighs - pick her up - and say - "we have a lot to talk about :) who are you?"...Or something like that...It would be so cool but with all this "going slow" technique put in my brain, I'm kinda chickened out to do this..

I'm pretty sure if I'm looking and feeling good, she would not feel that repulsed by it..

Do you guys think it would be okay?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i think its called going caveman. Now everything has a freaking technical term.
 
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r0cky said:
I think its worth a try. Go out and experiment then come back to us with your findings.
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Its not a new technique that i thought of. I ALWAYS feel the urge to just be playful and charming and pick them up and say something magical. :p

I'll have to be more aware and conscious, if I actually try this. I do day game, you know.
 
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I think I've got my answer. Its always OK if you believe it is OK. I might try it in my next pickups. Thnks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's always okay to do something like this, if you hit it off sufficiently with a girl. But just feeling like this in your mind is not enough. We all can imagine ourselves to be the great guy that can pull something like this off. But we need practice to be able to do it for real. To feel comfortable being and acting that way. Go out there and practise. :)
 
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