"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Magnatolia

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Hi Guys,

I'm doing a workout from a mens health magazine. It's solely designed for the shoulders. Consists of 2x10rep shoulder presses, 2x10reps dumbell upright row, 2x12reps standing scaption (dumbells raised to sides at 45 degree angle) and 2x12reps incline row to external rotation (similar to the upright row except you're at a 45 degree angle).

Do these for the first 2 weeks, then do:

3x6reps swiss-ball alternating shoulder press, 3x8reps dumbell shoulder shrug, 2x10reps lying swiss-ball row to external rotation and 2 Javorek complex.


Questions: Does this sound like a good workout for increasing the mass of the shoulder muscles? Is it suitable for me - I am 50kg very high metabolism and have trouble putting weight and muscle on.

For the workout for weeks 1 and 2, I am using 2.5kg dumbells for the standing scaption and 7.5kg for the rest. Does this sound good for someone who is 50kg? Is the 5kg difference between the exercises normal? I tend to be weaker when lefting to the side of my body.

Thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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EFFORT

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Stay away from workouts in magazines like that. Get a gym membership then read the A-Unit post to get your concept of training together then post again with new questions.
 

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Disclaimer: I do not know much, I'm a noobie, but from what I've read off people here you should do stuff like weighted-chinups, squats, and deadlifts and you will naturally have strong shoulders, biceps, etc.
 

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Correct Potbelly.

Routines taken from Men's fitness magazines are often being tossed together and given random justification just because simple compound routines just don't seem "cool".

Some things to include in any routine:

3 Day Split
Deadlifts, Squats, Bench Press
Compound "Assistance" exercises (compound means you use multiple muscle groups)
Lower reps (3-5 on your main three (BP,SQ,DL) and middle ranged reps (6-10) on your assistance


Here is an example routine. I tossed in a few olympic movements, to improve explosiveness for football/track.
 
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