"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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please answer about flakes

zack77766

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I got a email address from a girl that has high interest in me. But when I ask her out via email, she gave me 2 excuses after 2 of my emails. The first was Im out of town sorry. 2nd: sorry but I really cant hang out. Whats up with this? Is it a **** test or she just messing with me. I didnt slam her in my emails and remained cool. Its just that at my last email I called her out on her bs, how I didnt appreciate it and the such.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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After the second email now you need to ignore her. The ball is in her court now, don't bother man.
 

zack77766

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Illusionist said:
After the second email now you need to ignore her. The ball is in her court now, don't bother man.
I see. I just dont understand why she does this though thanks
 

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It happens to one of my friends...I understand your situation amigo.... my friend has gone by this...

With some girl that he knows only by phone...and says that she likes him and wants to be with him...but she always makes some bull****....excuse

excuses...has gotten arrested and can't see him(Hahaha.it seems real)...

then is grounded ny her parents nd promisses to see him that WEEK(never does)...
My friend tells the girl by the phone that he loves her...

The pattern is trying to show that girls know not to make guys ego burst...but they enjoy playing with them

JUst Move on Buddy I think you get the point now...
 
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