"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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please advise on this escalation plan

mackdaddy27

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Please tell me if this is the correct way to escalate.

Now a girl that I talk to for one hour on the phone .
I setup a date to watch movie at my place. I plan on going to blockbuster so as to spend more time with her.
Once we have isolation , can I begin the kino escalation to sex right away even though we've only spent one to two hours total together ? If you are that forceful that soon , is it okay ?

Secondly , do I have to wait until she gives iois before i begin trying to fcck her or will she start to want to fcck once i start to heavy kino / kiss her ?

Is it okay to kinda be more aggressive, forceful, take the lead so as not to waist time ?

Basically I plan to follow the dicarlo kino escalation method basically kiss her, her body, rub against her vagina , then finger her, ****, theb begin sex . That is tha escalation ramp I plan to follow.
I really like the movie idea as its a simple way to get isolation. Any other suggestion / advice on escalating is appreciated.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheBaconator

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I think it depends on the girl. She could be totally turned off by your agressiveness and see you as desperate for a lay, or she could see it as confidence and manliness in going right after what you want. It all depends on if she wants to get down though.
 

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The plan is fine. More important than any advice I give or any other DJ for that matter, is YOUR real life experience. Take this plan, try it out a few times with different women, then look back, figure out what works for you, adjust your plan, then try it out with a few more women. Then repeat steps until you are happy with it and it becomes natural for you.
 
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