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Please Advice:AW I Think

slickaz

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ok so back home there was this chic i was dating that some of you knew.
called her a AW and a gold digger coz she tried to be demanding with gifts and expensive dinners.

anyway i left soon after for sydney.

so now im here.
i posted some usher lyrics on my fb blog bout how good they good were.

and a friend of mine said ooh who are these poems for.as a joke,
so i replied with
"why you like em? think she'll like em?"
my friend said <whose a chic> says" i think she'll love em,.."

me " yeh the dumb$ss has to read it first to even kno it exists ryt,,lol"

then my EX plate comes along and sayd "Dont call me a dumbass!..i know these poems are for me..so dont be mean to me"


i have not heard from this girl since i flew out.
all of a sudden out of nowhere its all this talk about how im writing love poems for her..

is that AW behaviour? or is it just strange?
because i mean i feel like i may have not ended things properly and she still assumes smtn myt be going on.
but i havent texted or rung or emailed or FBd even.

i just wanna know if she is an AW looking for a relationship thats convenient thatll give her attn when needed..
 

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All she did was reply to a blog, what are you making such a big deal about?
 

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slickaz said:
i just wanna know if she is an AW looking for a relationship thats convenient thatll give her attn when needed..
AWs don't get into relationships for attention. They may flirt,make sexual comments,wear revealing clothes,cause unnecessary drama and such,but getting into a commited just for attention,no. It's much easier to just wear a low cut shirt or kiss another girl to get attention than to be tied down in a relationship.
 

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no i mean the way i see it is.

we never talk, suddenly over the past couple days i been getting some pretty nice msgs from her and her assuming its her im talkin abt when i posted the lyrics.

im just askin if girls can get to a stage where when you're there they fight n argue alot.
then suddenly you go away..you dont hear anything for over a month then suddenly two days of msging n asking for replies n attention.

im asking if i give it to her like even reply on her board..is that ok?
not ok? because i dont wanna be the dude she turns to when she just needs some attention from a guy n she is too lazy to go out n look for it..plus weve fukd so maybe a safe bet asking for my attn? i dunno...i really dunno coz i dont do this internet BS
 
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