"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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playing the "V-card"?

mungro

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I think I saw a post that regarded virginity before... but here's my question regarding the v-card...

I'm 22, and still a virgin... i've had girlfriends before but I never actually did it... we mostly stuck to other things... one of my sticking points was that I used to have a mild obsession with finding a girl that was also a virgin who wanted to make it "special". In retrospect, I think this was fueled perhaps by my own insecurities and fear of what a very experienced girl would think if we had sex etc....

But now that I'm at this ripe old age of 22, I figure that its about time to let go of all that, and just find a decent girl that I would enjoy sleeping with and do it...

So my questions are... is telling a girl about my v-card a bad DJ move? I've been told by some friends that I should really play up my v-card... that girls will somehow find this attractive? I question that line of thinking... but I wanted to get a few more ideas.... And if this is true, how does one go about revealing his virginity in a good light?

Alternatively, maybe I should just "neglect" to tell a girl I'm a virgin and just get down to the nasty and let her find out?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LegalSeduction

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I am just an rAFC, so all I can do is pass along what i've heard... david deangelo said a few times that it would not be a good idea to play the v-card.

that doesn't mean it's a bad idea for YOU.. just that it might be a bad idea for people using his techniques, or for people using basically the same strategies as the ones he teaches.

that said, i'm not planning on playing my v-card.

good luck
 

the12thplanet

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Originally posted by Brad324
Ever consider trading in your v-card at your nearest prostitute? :)
ive thought about that. everybody says the first time is bad and awkward anyways, so why not get it over with with a hooker? the only problem is i come from a somewhat nice town i dont know where to find a prostitute. and how would i make sure it isnt a cop?
 

blinkwatt

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like i like to say"i aint be lovin them hoes"
dont waste your hard earned money on hookers,
if you need to lose it so bad find a fat chick.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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