"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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playing the "V-card"?

mungro

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I think I saw a post that regarded virginity before... but here's my question regarding the v-card...

I'm 22, and still a virgin... i've had girlfriends before but I never actually did it... we mostly stuck to other things... one of my sticking points was that I used to have a mild obsession with finding a girl that was also a virgin who wanted to make it "special". In retrospect, I think this was fueled perhaps by my own insecurities and fear of what a very experienced girl would think if we had sex etc....

But now that I'm at this ripe old age of 22, I figure that its about time to let go of all that, and just find a decent girl that I would enjoy sleeping with and do it...

So my questions are... is telling a girl about my v-card a bad DJ move? I've been told by some friends that I should really play up my v-card... that girls will somehow find this attractive? I question that line of thinking... but I wanted to get a few more ideas.... And if this is true, how does one go about revealing his virginity in a good light?

Alternatively, maybe I should just "neglect" to tell a girl I'm a virgin and just get down to the nasty and let her find out?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LegalSeduction

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I am just an rAFC, so all I can do is pass along what i've heard... david deangelo said a few times that it would not be a good idea to play the v-card.

that doesn't mean it's a bad idea for YOU.. just that it might be a bad idea for people using his techniques, or for people using basically the same strategies as the ones he teaches.

that said, i'm not planning on playing my v-card.

good luck
 

the12thplanet

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Originally posted by Brad324
Ever consider trading in your v-card at your nearest prostitute? :)
ive thought about that. everybody says the first time is bad and awkward anyways, so why not get it over with with a hooker? the only problem is i come from a somewhat nice town i dont know where to find a prostitute. and how would i make sure it isnt a cop?
 

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like i like to say"i aint be lovin them hoes"
dont waste your hard earned money on hookers,
if you need to lose it so bad find a fat chick.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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