I think I saw a post that regarded virginity before... but here's my question regarding the v-card...
I'm 22, and still a virgin... i've had girlfriends before but I never actually did it... we mostly stuck to other things... one of my sticking points was that I used to have a mild obsession with finding a girl that was also a virgin who wanted to make it "special". In retrospect, I think this was fueled perhaps by my own insecurities and fear of what a very experienced girl would think if we had sex etc....
But now that I'm at this ripe old age of 22, I figure that its about time to let go of all that, and just find a decent girl that I would enjoy sleeping with and do it...
So my questions are... is telling a girl about my v-card a bad DJ move? I've been told by some friends that I should really play up my v-card... that girls will somehow find this attractive? I question that line of thinking... but I wanted to get a few more ideas.... And if this is true, how does one go about revealing his virginity in a good light?
Alternatively, maybe I should just "neglect" to tell a girl I'm a virgin and just get down to the nasty and let her find out?
I'm 22, and still a virgin... i've had girlfriends before but I never actually did it... we mostly stuck to other things... one of my sticking points was that I used to have a mild obsession with finding a girl that was also a virgin who wanted to make it "special". In retrospect, I think this was fueled perhaps by my own insecurities and fear of what a very experienced girl would think if we had sex etc....
But now that I'm at this ripe old age of 22, I figure that its about time to let go of all that, and just find a decent girl that I would enjoy sleeping with and do it...
So my questions are... is telling a girl about my v-card a bad DJ move? I've been told by some friends that I should really play up my v-card... that girls will somehow find this attractive? I question that line of thinking... but I wanted to get a few more ideas.... And if this is true, how does one go about revealing his virginity in a good light?
Alternatively, maybe I should just "neglect" to tell a girl I'm a virgin and just get down to the nasty and let her find out?