Well thanks for the tips you have changed my life. I may be 22 but in my short time on this earth I have slept with over 70 women and have become a self-made millionaire (or very close to a millionaire). So when we talk about life experience, you may have 20 years on me in theory but the reality is much different.Night Owl said:Hehehe
I have just realized how old you are - I have got twice as many miles on the clock than you !!
With the years comes something called wisdom.
With Wisdom - I can spot a gold digger, a high maintainance job, shallow *****s, seperated women with teenages at home, those looking for a quick one night stand, and those looking for a LTR from a mile away as soon as they come on to my radar and avoid like the plauge or some STD.
With Wisdom - I know if I dress a certain way, I get a certain result. After years of fine tuning I have got something that works and attacts the women I want to be with. Might not be the sort of woman you want to be with, but I am happy.
With Wisdom - I discovered that I don't need to dye my hair, I don't need to drive a flash car, nor brag about anything. I don't need to spend money on dates nor really expensive designer named clothes - all have the reverese effect.
Yes I have made plenty of mistakes, but I have learned, sometimes the hard way. But at the end of the day, if you read the DJ bible and writings of others here you will find a way that works. And you are luckly, you have this forum/site to help - years ago there was nothing.
Good luck and good hunting !!
You cant afford a flashy car or designer cloths so you rationalize by saying that they do not get you anything in life. The facts are that designer cloths and good cars make your life easier they do not have the reverse effect. Certainly there is a whole lot more to getting laid than a car and cloths but if you have those things it sure makes the whole process easier. If a woman sees you drive up in a $100,000 Mercedes she knows a few things about you already.
-You are successful
-You are driven
-You have taste
-You have class
-You are probably for lack of a better word an alpha male
She can also see confidence in the way you carry yourself. People that can not afford cars, expensive apartments rationalize by saying 'those guys only get laid because they have money'. The thing is most rich people have all the qualities a woman looks for in a man because to make money in todays world you need to be a Don Juan of sorts.
I agree 100% with anybody who tells me that you do not need cars, cloths and expensive apartments to get women. I use to get women when I was broke and living at home. Most of my friends are in debt up to their eyeballs and live with their parents and they get women. I am saying that these things help and lets be honest women excluded I rather drive a Merc and wear designer cloths anyway. Merc's are amazing cars that are an absolute pleasure to drive and designer cloths are as comfortable as your own skin.
So as I said I agree these things are not needed but when you say they have the reverse effect and only get you gold diggers it is just rationalizing. People that are not ballsy enough or smart enough to make money convince themselves that everybody with money is only getting laid because of money.
Also that whole thing about you wisdom letting you spot gold diggers, you don't know me. You may have more wisdom than me on life in general but when it comes to people I can tell you everything about them after talking to them for a minute. I see right through people because of who I am, what I am I know people, I know more about them than they know about themselves. I know what buttons to push, I know what to say and when to say it.