Playing off sex problems.....

[speedo_meme]

OK moderator, please don't move my thread, I'm not posting about limp ****, I'm wondering how to play it off....

I'm still having erection problems and I'm getting scared my girl might start looking for d*ck elsewhere if I can't get my act together. I know she likes me, but how long can it seriously last with a girl that's a sex crazed maniac? How can I temporarily play this off until I can get my sh*t back together? Is it ok to talk with the girl about these sort of problems? I mean, hot chicks with options can get d*ck anytime, yet she chose me, and I can't get a f*cking hard on......guess it's only right. I need some help to keep her satisfied for awhile until I can get my confidence (not to mention my sex drive back). Any advice? It's really getting embarrassing now....

 

[Vibe]

How long have you been dating her? If you guys have a good relationship, you should be able to talk to her about those things without fearing judgement.

However, if it's a fresh relationship, it's probably best to keep it to yourself and learn how to lick p*ssy like a champ. Learn to make her squirt (http://www.ideagasms.com) and she'll never leave you.

~Vibe~

 

[speedo_meme]

Yeah, it's frustrating though because she will do ANYTHING for me. She's been on the rag lately, so I've got to give it a few days before I can start licking on it again. I still don't know what's wrong with my d*ck.

 

[Bad_Lil'Pixie]

Who rules, wins!!!

Sounds like your big head is freaking out your little head.

You better calm down some or you may get yourself so worked up that he won't come out to play at all.

Tame the tiger - if she is doing something that is pushing you to orgasm too fast, slow her down, pin her hands, make her wear a shirt, flip her over face down, get on top, get on bottom, whatever it takes to change the pace. If you keep control of her body maybe you can keep control a little longer.

All in all, it is a pretty good problem to have, IMO.

 

[Phoenix_of_the_ashes]

How exactly do you plan on solving your problem?

If you think your girl will react this way she probably will.

 

[ApocalypseCow2]

Originally posted by speedo_meme
Any advice? It's really getting embarrassing now....

The longer this goes on, the worse it becomes because the pressure you put on yourself to perform just keeps building and building.

Try this: next time you have sex with your girl, tell her you don't want intercourse. Don't think about your d1ck at all and don't use it. No pressure. Pleasure her, and have her find ways to pleasure you. Try this a couple times, and things may start looking "up" for you....

 

[Kaliffoo]

I had the same problem that you have when I started having sex with my current girl. She is the hottest girl I've ever been with and she is 4 years older, so I put a lot of pressure on myself to be really good in bed. On the third time going at it, I just told her I was a little nervous because I had never been with anyone older than me and more experienced. She totally understood and even was even more attentive to my needs.

I was more relaxed and the fear of embarrasement was gone so i was able to perform without problem. If you dont wanna be too open with your girl you might want to try using viagra (or similar products) as a crutch while you build up confidence and get more relaxed, then gradually stop using them.

BTW. Most of the time when guys cant get it up, girls think it's them thats the problem, they tend to think they're not hot enough to get you going.