Playing Hardball

[Poon King]

Poon, there was a time many years ago I was willing to play the stupid games to get the pu$$y, but eventually I grew tired of it. I simply walked away and went elsewhere to get results. I wasn't so hard up for a piece of a$$ that I had to tolerate schitty behavior and play stupid games. You preach this all the time, yet here you are saying a guy should put up with games to get pu$$y???? You sound like a woman. You are all over the road lately.

Sure, but sh!tty behavior is subjective.

Some men like the chase more than others. If the behavior wasn't causing the OP emotional stress then it doesn't matter. Every woman will play games and no woman will be an angel 24/7. Every man must make his own decision about where to draw the line.

Personally.. I want a woman doing things on my terms. She is free to be difficult on occasion provided she is respectful. Once she gets disrespectful its time for her to f*ck off.

 

[sazc]

Stay tuned for lingerie photos.

In all seriousness, cant wait!!!

 

[CMNILS87]

Wrong. When I tried to walk away she was forced to tell me the ugly truth, and we got through her story.

Show us the girl you have that is rated in the 99 percentile on multiple photos, and who is in her prime, and we might take you seriously. You guys don't even have dates, nevermind 10's.

What a bunch of pretenders here, acting like they have so many dream girls they can throw them away if they mess up ONE time, even if they apologize. Why get a new girl if the one you had starts acting the way you hoped?

I'm happy my dream girl is now gushing. Sorry if many of you think I should go back to jerking off like you are.

Pretenders? Who is that aimed at? I strike out just as much as I get laid. When was the last time you heard any one person on this forum that had locked down a solid 9/10 girl that was marriage material and not in the slightest crazy?

My only problem with the post was that you could've gone about it differently that disappearing on her and max level dreading her. Why not just confront her, tell her you're not going anywhere else till she confides in you about her BS and really build the trust from within? I get the dread caused a major emotional swing, but I really think it was not needed.

As for the posting pix of dream girls. I won't supplicate to that ego trip, because it doesn't achieve anything. What I find attractive may be a tad different

 

[bigneil]

She is telling me I finally know the real her.

Every girl has a story, and until they tell you their story they will think "you don't even know me". One way or another, you need to get her to open up and tell you her story. In my case, because I told her I was about to fire her over my core principles (she agreed to terms and unilaterally changed the terms), she realized she had to come clean and tell me why. Once she did, I totally understood how I had unwittingly upset her. By random chance or coincidence, details of my planned theatrics were closely related to her story. So know her story, otherwise you might be upsetting her without even knowing it. For some reason the color white upset her!

 

[sazc]

she confided in you that she was hesitating because the colors of the lingerie shoot (white) made her remember being molested and feel insecure and you guys didn't actually talk about why white triggered her? On the one hand, disclosure of vulnerabilities is a great thing when it comes to bonding. There is definitely another layer here tho, probably several more. you've only scratched the surface in terms of 'the real her' Still, it's probably closer than she's let anyone get in a very long time.

Victims of molestation dont make the best of partners, unless they have really dealt with their shyt. Add on top of that, use these DJ techniques, and you may trigger her agan, more than one time. Again JFYI. You may get to a point where you get tired of how often you have to push so that she will respond. Some people are cool with that tho, to each his own.

 

[bigneil]

Today she is gushing with romance like never before.

Her texts per week went: 61, 25, 5, 0, 10, 71.

 

[bigneil]

Update: She showed up for her date, said she could tell I had improved at the gym already, and we made love like never before. She confessed she is falling in love. I must have done something right.

That said, this subject where she was triggered came up again (oddly after hours of sex) and she seems to get triggered again by it. Some weird issue there. But she's otherwise almost perfect so I have to cut her some slack.