"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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playing hard-to-get

rocco

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i met this girl online, and we dated once.

anyway, i call her up to hangout, and she starts being unresponsive, and she hangs up on me. so im like, okay whatever, im nexting her. cos she's not interested it seems.

then she pm's me today saying that her "phone is having technical difficulties" which is bull****.

wtf is she doing, seems like she's playing games. it is getting me alittle turned on tho. what would you do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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stevey_2000

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mate, if a girl is playing mind games with you, next her and leave her to play her games on herself, you have more chance by ignoring her stupid games and show her you have better things to do with your time (which i hope you have)
 

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If it where me it would go like this.

ME: so then....
HB: (hangs up)
Me: (Hang up) she wants to play games.................well play fvcking games.

Thats if you game beat her!
 

stevey_2000

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with all respect whyshy though, why should this guy stoop low into playin games with a hb?,

surely all girls that play games will be f***** up in the head and need ignoring???, unless it's just me being a bit strict and nexting too easy ;)
 

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You know, sometimes you need a challenge.

But if you don't know how to play the game here, then she might turn you into an AFC.

Like when she hung up on you. I would have hung up on her when she called back saying it was technical. My excuse would have been the same as hers.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Its also possible that her phone was having technical difficulties... Obviously if this stuff becomes a trend then I'd immediate next.

I just had that sort of conversation this week. Talking with this girl and for the life of me I couldn't understand what she was saying because her cellphone had crappy coverage and then she cut out on me. There was no problem just crappy reception.
 
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