Playing Hard to Get vs. Low Interest

[flint]

Hey guys, wanted to consult the DJ's on this one.

In general, what traits or actions spell out whether a girl is playing hard to get or actually has low interest?

I think it's important to know the difference because girls use that card all the time.

Could you guys give me some specific examples to demonstrate this?

 

[Poonani Maker]

I just assume that if they are not fawning all over me, if they are not asking my friends about me, or for my phone number, or trying to "trap" or corner me to talk to me alone for privacy, then, she's not interested, hard-to-get or not.

 

[Mike32ct]

I agree with Poonani. If I don't get obvious signs of interest, I move on. It may be that I've lost several girls that were secretly interested but were playing hard to get. Too bad. I'm not interested in their games.

For example, I leave a maximum of two voicemail messages. If I don't hear back, I delete her number. While continued persistence MIGHT work in some cases, I don't do so because it would make me feel like a stalker LOL.

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

This is the question, isn't it?

The business of a Man is to diesel through the psychological chess game, while at the same time maintaining vigilance.