Playing hard to get vs low interest levels

[slitherjef]

The past couple days I have been thinking (I know, thinking can be bad) about low interest and playing hard to get. As some one new to this stuff I wondered if I would be able to tell the difference between a chick who has low interest and one who is playing hard to get, though I am sure there would be a gut feeling on either one, at least to those DJs who are actualy good with chicks, but for us guys who are not good with chicks, how do you tell?

A chick with low interest will, I assume not call you, or agree to a date. But if a chick digs you, but wants to play hard to get because she don't want to come off as a sl*t or something, what would she do?

And yes, im sure most of you would "next" a chick who was playing hard to get.

Your thoughts?

 

[Dongfu]

Hard to get is a great game. If she's doing this she will also give you IOI's. She just wont agree to everything you want, right when you want it. If you ask for her # she might say something like I dont think so, you havent earned it yet. But she is inviting you to persist.

no interest = no interest. She will not waste even five words on you, will look away when you try to talk to her, wont respond well to c/f or negging. SHe leaves you no opening to to anything. By By :moon:

 

[ready123]

yea girls with game play the hard to get angle. it keeps them from losing value and also keeps them from feeling like they're "easy". a lot of attractive ones do it naturally. then there are the ugly chicks who TRY to do it because they think the *****iness is attractive to guys but end up acting pathetic

if you're ever in a conversation and it feels like you're verbally sparring to see who's more witty, she's playing hard to get. a chick with no interest wouldn't even bother exerting the brainpower

 

[LostAndConfused]

If she's not interested in you, you'll notice that her eyes wander a *TON*...looking at her friends for support, looking at other guys who attract her. I dont know about hard to get because when girls play that game with me I just drop it. If I wanted to play games I'd get on my xbox.

 

[Serialized3]

Hard to get is a great game. If she's doing this she will also give you IOI's. She just wont agree to everything you want, right when you want it. If you ask for her # she might say something like I dont think so, you havent earned it yet. But she is inviting you to persist.

no interest = no interest. She will not waste even five words on you, will look away when you try to talk to her, wont respond well to c/f or negging. SHe leaves you no opening to to anything. By By :moon:

Quoted 'fer truth

Girls with no interest will simply just try to minimize interaction with you, not engage in conversation, etc.

Girls that are playing hard to get will be responsive some of the time, send out mixed messages, etc.

Of course, it gets more interesting as there are always girls that just feed their egos by outright flirting with you occasionally, with no interest towards you at all.

 

[Maxtro]

Quoted 'fer truth

Girls with no interest will simply just try to minimize interaction with you, not engage in conversation, etc.

Girls that are playing hard to get will be responsive some of the time, send out mixed messages, etc.

Of course, it gets more interesting as there are always girls that just feed their egos by outright flirting with you occasionally, with no interest towards you at all.

Will a girl with no interest ask questions about me? Asking how I'm doing in school, how my new job is going. I seriously can't tell if this girl in my class has no interest, playing hard to get or is neutral. Every time my name is called she says repeats it and adds "dizzle" But I'm stuck on that fact she turned down the idea of us working on our projects together and suggested I get my parents help. I did suggest it in a very wussy way though. I probably creeped her out.

I have no idea how to act around her on Monday. If I only knew what she thought about me then my options would be more clear.