"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok, so I met this HB9 at a bar and we ended up having sex that night. Things were really going good for about 2-3 weeks. Plenty of calls from her, never ending compliments (you're hot, sex is great, blah blah blah), inviting me over, met the parents, calling me a player... real good stuff. Anyway, she ended up going on a planned family trip (fact, saw the tickets) for a little over a week and after she came back things just haven't been the same. Its been like pulling teeth trying to get back into what we had before she left. We've talked a couple times briefly and met up once at a bar since then but she hasn't been all over me, calling me, or complimenting me like she was before this trip. Instead of compliments she'll bust on me, she wont come over my place (like she did before hand), and she'll break plans but counters. I've basically been playing it cool but I'm not sure if she lost interest or is kind of trying to regain power since she already gave up the goods... just pretty much confused. I'd like to believe she's playing hard to get, but I'm starting to get the feeling she's lost interest for one reason or another..

So how do I proceed, do I ignore, be nice...what? :confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She is a bar hor - hors do as they please!! Why care!!! Fvck her!!! Oh yeah you did already! :rolleyes: I meant, figuratively!

Some dudes on here say that you are the problem and you didn't ram her good enough and you didn't blah blah bla blah!! Don't listen to that crap!!!

She is a hor and you did your job - you need to do nothing more -- don't contact her!!!

Never give hors power over you -- never -- by you chasing a hor you give her the power!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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never chase that girl, let her call you let her invite you let her ask if she wants to come over, and if she doesnt do anything then the relationship is over..
 
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You've fvcked her already so things are good... after all, that is what we work towards... after I fvck a chick I don't really worry about what happens next... I did what I set out to do and I know there's a whole bunch of new chicks waiting around the corner... a lot of times it develops into something more, i.e. fvck buddy...

What do you do... play it cool, do your own thing... have some different chicks if this chick calls, she calls and you fvck this chick some more... don't worry your head about it...

But on another note... seriously?! You're meeting the parents after a couple of weeks? LOL... honestly, that's a no-no... I'd say that's something you keep in the 12 month category if not longer... I mean really, unless you're a young dude and she's a young chick and you both live with your parents, then what do you need to meet the parents for unless you're asking pop if you can marry his daughter?
 
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well, she's defenitly not playing hard to get, but apperently has no interest in banging me anymore from what I can tell. Although she still feels the need to keep contact with me. I guess she either has a hard time being mean, or just gets a kick out of it, or likes the attention. Anyway, she's officially been next'd.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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