"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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exwhyzee

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I had/have a girlfriend and she is living on the other side of the country. Since I do not live near her I have taken interest in other girls. One of the girls who I like found out about this other girl and refuses to date me until I get rid of my girlfriend. I figure Ill just lie and say I broke up with my girlfriend, do you guys have any good ideas as o what to tell this other chick?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fuglydude

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I wouldn't do that bro... that's unethical... but its your life. Ask your gf (if you're still together) for an open relationship or something. I just think lying and stuff is bad for karma...and karma's a bizatch.

Prior to getting exclusive w/ my gf... I'd simultaneously date 3-4 girls, and i was open w/ what I told em: "I'm not ready to settle down, so I casually date lotsa girls at once"...women would call me a player, etc, but I don't play anyone cuz I'm being honest. And these girls were down w/ gettin naughty as well.

I just don't like lying, etc.

Just My 2 cents...
 
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I had three long distances and running game here.

Since then, I've dropped two, and picking up more game here.
 
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