"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Playing Games?

lobo5niner

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Just a quick question.
there is a girl that I've been aquainted with for a few months. We don't hang out, but see each other at the gym once or twice a week. i mentioned to her last week that I had been doing yoga. she thought it was cool and wanted to go with me. We had already exchanged numbers previously as she wanted me to taker her on a ride (i own a motorcycle). She calls me out of the blue yesterday and wants to go to yoga. Then tells me she'll call me back with information about the time and whatnot. We'll she never called back. Just wondering if she is playing games or what? Just curious because I've had several girls in the past few months do things similar to this. They want me to do things with them, but never call back when they say they will. Whatever. Help?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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spider_007

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don't lose any sleep over it. Some people like to make fun of them for not calling or canceling and give hem a hard time. It's up to you. Just DON'T LET HER KNOW YOU WARE INCONVENIENCED. And next time make plans,
 

DJ Hawtness

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You're a fool. You never give a girl your phone number. =/

If you're curious as to why not, read and find out.
 
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