"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Playing Challenge, Unavailability/Scarcity Card. Field Report: Mixed.

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NeverFear

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After reverting to my past days two years ago in a relationship where I fell in love (in a week) and chased her (destroying interest level) and she dumped me...........

Enjoy this field report of the PAST two years. Absolutely no chasing but lots of ****y and funny masculine unavailability.

- I've had a few women chase me because they want to date me.

- three women are going crazy right now . They are obsesed with the mysterious "where are you" dynamic

-you should know that one woman DUMPED me because i wouldnt commit to being exclusive as far as dating only one person
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DJnoob

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totally agree with you

agree with you on this.. chicks are going crazyy... this chick at work with told in my face "you are soo secretive, you never give any straight answers"

this site is gold and the djs here

hahaha
 
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DJnoob

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ohh damn me too bro, exact same thing this chick told me! LOL..

she started singing "secret agent man" from ace ventura after.. ahaha
 
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Watch it now and dont make the same mistake with me, dont turn into a total ****y, arrogant person because thats a total TURN OFF.
 
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^^^^^^^^^^ Here here, doing that nobbed my game. Royaly. Be confident in your mack, because you can do it, but always rememebr you're dealing with people, not things, and you're only great because you've recognised your flaws.

(If you're now thinking "flaws? Me? Wtf?" you're just plain screwed.)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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