"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Playing 2 girls into a threesome, any pro-tips?

SandHawk

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Please read the story, it's of importance

I got a very interesting situation at hand with 2 girls from dancing. I'll spare you the details from how this started, but a few weeks ago things started really going with 2 girls and flirting ensued. I have a cute redhead and a okish brunette. The redhead is massively flirting with me and throwing IOIs in the form of lots of kino, smiling and eye contact, the brunette is showing IOIs by actively seeking me out and constantly attempting to chat me.

Tonight was the highlight as we went out for dinner with a bunch of people from dancing. Redhead next to me, brunette opposite side of the table. Redhead throws her head on my shoulder, tries to tickle me, that sort of stuff. Brunette later outside made some remark like "But you wouldn't like me anyway" when I walked arm-in-arm with her, and later I pulled the other girl in and had a girl on each arm. In a pub we played "I never have" and the brunette just popped out wether or not I fancied the redhead. Like a proper DJ, I just changed the subject without answering the question, but she acted jealous for a while and kept hinting at it. Redhead keeps kino going.

Now, both girls know each other(and have a boyfriend, but those relationships are dying), and both have experience with making out with a girl(The joys of "I never have"), and I actually want try and get them into a threesome. Tomorrow they want more "I never have" with me(diff party, more people). Any tips on how I am going to play this? If I make out with one of them, the other will find out, so I WILL have to lure them into a situation with the 3 of us and the ability to make out. I am going to pop the "I never had a threesome" one tomorrow, which I've did before to see how they respond to that, and was considering to invite them BOTH over for a movie to my house later in the week and make that end with a bunch of booze and spin the bottle.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Scars

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After further reading you pretty much took my advice right out of my mouth. You need to playfully bring it up and see how they react to it. I've only had one 3-some in my life, and it was kind of by accident. If the girls are really close friends you have a better chance. They need another girl they can trust. Make sure you hint that if anything happened (either way) you will keep it on the dl. I think while you're at this party you should try dancing with both of them at the same time. Being sandwiched by two girls is fun. If they are openly receptive to each other take that as a sign too. Try and get them dancing dirty with each other, but stay involved. Later in the night I would just blatantly say "you know it would be really hott if you too made out right now" try and get them kissing. Throughout the whole night you have to be teasing them both. As soon as you think one is in the slightest flustered or losing interest go back to her. Go back and forth. Keep them both feeling good. Playfully talk about it with them too. Use the word "share". You have to make your intentions clear, but subtle until you know how they are going to react. If everything is good, then you will know when you hit that shot-gun point in the course of the night, just like if you were laying any girl. You just straight up take them away, or hint that you should go somewhere alone. If you think you can do it then don't second guess yourself. As soon as you see that window of opportunity take it.
 

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Like every situation, there are so many factors that could make or break it. I would not say that you havent had a 3 way before. How would saying that help you at all? Are they gonna feel sorry for you and agree to it to make you feel better? Do you a favor? No.

You gotta start realizing that everything you say and do has an effect. Dont say things that may create an outcome you dont want.

Timing, attitude, how willing they are, these will all make the difference. You need to discover what they are willing to do in a way that keeps things open. At the same time you have to orchestrate everything the way you want it to go. They should know you are doing it, and be okay to follow your lead because it just feels ok to do so.

If you are unsure how to make it happen then it probably wont. You need to have real confidence that is backed up by something substantial. What will you do if you do get them in bed? How good are you with even one girl.

Unless they are into each other, and you, your best bet is to close one of them for now, and expand from there.
 

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Mistic said:
Like every situation, there are so many factors that could make or break it. I would not say that you havent had a 3 way before. How would saying that help you at all? Are they gonna feel sorry for you and agree to it to make you feel better? Do you a favor? No.
Ah, It seems like you're not familiar with the game "I never have" then. The game is very simple. Give everyone a glass of booze(preferable mild alcoholic and some might be wasted in an hour) and start a sentence by "I have never ....", followed by an activity. If you did do the activity, you have to drink. For instance, "I never had sex", and did you have sex, you drink. So yes, I did have a threesome before, but that was an accident aswell.

Mistic said:
If you are unsure how to make it happen then it probably wont. You need to have real confidence that is backed up by something substantial. What will you do if you do get them in bed? How good are you with even one girl.
Getting them eventually into bed and having the actual sex isn't the problem. I'm well experienced with 1 girl, and I've had a threesome before. But with girls that take the lead a bit on getting what they want in bed that shouldn't be a problem. It's just that thing that leads up to it. I might not even be able to escalate it tonight as at least 1 has their boyfriend with her.
 

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Massaging is one of the better ways to go apparently. My friend quoted one of the PUA gurus and he said that massaging worked really well. Might aswell just score some of that this week and invite them over if tonight isn't going to work out(which probably won't).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Personally I'd hook up with the girl that won't have her boyfriend with her. Then maybe try for the 3some at a later time.
 
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