Playground and playmates.

[playa99]

I'm fast realizing a major part of being a DJ is who you associate with.

For the past 8 months i've hung out with people who aren't successful with women, are self centered, greedy and immature and just generally not the best people to be around.

I was flailing with girls, I couldn't talk to them anymore and was generally feeling down about myself..

I've changed who I go out with to people who I feel are like minded to myself and the results have been great... I've pulled 3 girls in 4 weeks! which hasn't happened in a long time.

My point being who you hang out with is generally a reflection of you... Be wise and surround yourself with successful people in every aspect of life.

 

[Purefilth]

I only have a couple of close friends, and a wider circle of friends who "think" theyre close to me. And a huge circle of people I know and who know me enough to be friendly.(my social proof posse )

Only keep a few close. Use your best judgement on who you let in close too.

mostly though, I am comfortable chilling with myself. Relaxing, and being in my own thoughts. Most importantly - I am my own wingman because I do it best.
Its honestly amazing how many people will try to cawkblock you - even though they claim to be a buddy. Jealousy and envy wil turn the weak against you in this game. Its a solo enterprise - NOONE will help you get laid. You can get help in any aspect in life except for this.

 

[playa99]

Exactly... I have a solid group of about 4 close friends, the rest don't know anything really significant about me..

I used to try and make everyone a close friend.... BIG MISTAKE, it will not work out!

Jealousy... yep that kicks in with so many guys its untrue!

 

[plate's_empty]

Exactly... I have a solid group of about 4 close friends, the rest don't know anything really significant about me..

I used to try and make everyone a close friend.... BIG MISTAKE, it will not work out!

Jealousy... yep that kicks in with so many guys its untrue!

Seriously, I had a long time buddy that would want to hang out to pick up chicks. I'd be doing the pickup and he'd be riding in after I got the girls all warm and fuzzy. It was always me doing the opening. The problem was, he had little game, so he couldn't hold his own. And would fail every sh1t test. The girls would complain to him about something about me, and he'd talk sh1t to me about it. Then go back to our larger group of friends and say that I had ****ed things up. Needless to say he was 86'd.

On a brighter note I have a few friends, from the same large group, who can hold their own against anyone, who get it. Usually, if I hang out with anyone now, it's them.