Playfully Slapped, what to do?

[Sofomore]

So I went over to check out my neighbor's guinea pig (yes, guinea pig) and her roommate was there. We were both a little drunk and I had just gone hot-tubbing so I didnt have my shirt on. When I was talking to her this girl was kind of feeling my chest playfully...very subtly. When I turned around to walk towards the guinea pig she fuking SLAPS my back. Like this was A HARD SLAP.

I turned around, grabbed her arms and looked into her eyes. She gave me the puppy eyes. I slapped her upper back in return for the pain. I didn't do it as hard as her, but definitely enough.

She went downstairs and sat on the couch and said "He hit me!" to her roommate. Now, I think I might have played that out wrong, but my drunk intuition said playfully show her you wont stand for that ****.

What would you guys do in this situation?

 

[Sofomore]

Im looking for a serious answer man. What would you have really done.

 

[F!DELITY]

said to her "I'll make you pay for that if u do that sh!t again" (playfully/flityu of course)

If she does it again, make a move!

 

[DJ Miquelo]

yeah i think u handled it alright tbh man nothing overly wrong with what u did.

I would have perhaps not kicked her ass in such an obvious manner haha and do something more along the lines of what F!DELITY said. Given her a warning and then if she did it again PUNISH! that dirty ho haha.

but yeah dont think about it too much i dont think u fvcked up or anything!

 

[littlebear]

Fool, I once had what I considered a tight relationship with a woman (no sex, just innocent hugging) but it has the potential to go there fast.
She told me straight up out of the blue when her son was defying her, that
she expected the man of her's to punish the kids. I took this, and
rightly so, that she expected me to man up and prove I was to the
task of being "the man" of her house, should we move forward toward
shacking up.
The next time her son was really abusive to her, I swatted him, with
eye and nod to her that I would; given he had acted up.
The woman (mom) then accused me of being abusive, no parent that
swatted their kid the way I did this one would ever accuse me of
'ABUSE". I grew up abused, I know abuse well.
She was a whack jjob, it was over after that and I am glad. glad glad.
you may strike a female, if she is your charge (daughter by gene or
adoption) otherwise, never strike a woman.
never strike anyone, for that matter. it is for , between men in sports
in playful celebration, and for self defense or defense of the kin. You
strike a woman; you then become a threat, not a protector.
You should have reached for a drink, dipped it in the pool,
threw it full load on her blouse, saying "I am a man, MAN, I will get your
respect" "no real man ever needs strike a woman, and not lady strikes a
man".
then leave.
You want respect, then never let a woman do to you, what she would not
let you do to her. EVER!!
She did not misbehave, she violated your respect, show her she
better come back to you, not to UNhurt your feelings or pride, but
to show you that she screwed up.

IF a woman or man ever strikes each other, it is only during
S&M D&B games, within the rules for that genre.
ie, safe words. prearranged limits and scenarios.
don't knock it, with the right woman, it is fun.

Littlebear
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[littlebear]

the other way to handle it.

Another approach could have been to swat her on her ass
in a very pimp way.

Or just fall down like you were wounded, and play combat injury, Me
solider; you nurse, me need tending, in this jacuzzi.
If she does not play along, (with the naughty nurse
scenario) chuck her like a dirty baby
diaper.

Littlebear
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[slaog]

When I was dating my current GF last year she gave me a playful slap in the arm. I didn't think much of it. Many months later when we were talking about that second date I said I wasn't sure what she was thinking on it and she said she liked me and tried to show it by playfully slapping my arm. So its a definete sign of interest.


To answer your question.... I don't think you handled it at all well. It actually reminds me of two 4 year olds hitting each other. You hit her because she hit you.


Her slap was a playful flirt with you. Instead of reacting to the pain you should have reacted to the flirt and playfully threaten to smack her bum if she done it again etc. Just play along.


The information you gave is not enough to give an accurate reply. What happened later on when ye saw each other again? Did she react badly to being slapped back?

 

[Sofomore]

I haven't seen her yet. It turned out that the next day I was going on vacation for a week, meaning I will see her next Sunday.


As to add to the story, she slapped my back one time and I looked at her like WHAT THE ****?! because it really was random. I told her that she better knock it off. 3 minutes later, THWAP! Another one on my back. This is when I grabbed her arms and held her against the wall playfully. Then laid one on her back as to say I told you so.

Now thinking about it I should have slapped her ass. Much more sexual/playful.

I am sure she will forget about it. Those puppy eyes though...something about them screamed "Be my master and put me into place".

I also held her hands with one of mine, kind of how I do when I'm boning the sh!t out of women.

 

[Desdinova]

Im looking for a serious answer man. What would you have really done.

You look straight in her eyes, say angrily but not loudly, "Don't fvcking do that again". Give her the look of death.

Wanna know what I did to a woman who kept slapping me regardless of the warnings? I slapped her back. Needless to say, the bull5hit stopped.

 

[scrouds]

Go for her neck.

No, don't squeeze unless she gives you attitude or won't submit, and even then don't shut off her air. No bruises, this isn't a violent thing. The way I see it is that the slap is an affront to your dominance as a man, and you need to regain that dominance and make her submit. And I don't know any better way.

 

[Masked_angel]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=163395

 

[moneyisking]

i wouldve slapped her ass and tell her you had to spank her for her naughty behavior

 

[Sofomore]

Alright it looks like I played it off decently considering I had no idea what to do. Next time I will make it look like she is a bad little girl who needs to be punished. Good to know.

 

[FairShake]

Don't listen to these fools.

Girls playfully slap and hit all the time. Means they're having a good time. Hitting them back is not ever appropriate. Pretty much puts you in weirdo territory.

 

[zekko]

James Bond would have kissed her.

 

[Sofomore]

Don't listen to these fools.

Girls playfully slap and hit all the time. Means they're having a good time. Hitting them back is not ever appropriate. Pretty much puts you in weirdo territory.

This was a little different. The girl slapped my back as hard as she could TWICE. As if she was testing me. You would have just stood there taking it like a little b!tch? Or would you show her whos boss and how its not ok to do it?

 

[FairShake]

You would have just stood there taking it like a little b!tch?

Pretty much.

Actually...in this case...the b!tch was hitting first, so hitting back is acting the *****.

I'm not sure it's EVER ok to hit women. Maybe if they have a knife or something, but otherwise it's not cool to slap a female. Especially if it's just to "show her who's boss." And when the slap is playful? Really? Hitting a girl back is just so socially OFF I can't see how anyone would think it's ok. It is literally sophomoric, or, maybe even younger.

Edit: Since I didn't really tell you a better way to handle it I think I owe you. A light swat on the ass would be good. Accent on the LIGHT and emphasis on the ASS.

 

[DJDamage]

Haven't you ever seen Dumb and Dumber?! Jeff Daniels is a pimp and he doesn't even know it!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bTb_pwUnR74

 

[MSwrestler]

take out ur penis and procede to **** slap her, or love tap her.

 

[horaholic]

Haven't you ever seen Dumb and Dumber?! Jeff Daniels is a pimp and he doesn't even know it!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bTb_pwUnR74

I was SSOOOOO just thinking about that before I read your post. Thumbs up!

The Snowball scene is the best!!!!

I would have taken that as a green light for major kino. I would have either slapped her ass and made her call me daddy, or grabbed her and bit her upper shoulder like most girls get wet from.

Personnally, when Im out, and a girls decides to grab my nipple, I grab the hell out of her titties, in a heartbeat.