"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Playfully hitting a girl - good kino, or feminine?

Genos

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Quick random question, today I was chatting with this girl, we were joking on each other, I was shooting down a few **** tests, good stuff.

During the banter, I playfully punched her; afterwards, it kind of occurred to me that this was the thing girls do to men after a guy passes their **** test and they can't think of a comeback, etc., and that's kind of what I did. I think it also may have conveyed my interest a bit too strongly.

What do you guys think of the playful punch type of kino during banter?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jimmy18

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Don't overthink because it's fine and a lot better than being too scared to touch her
 

Comatozed

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Better to go for the non-playful punch imo.

That's a joke - it's fine.
 

Thundernuts

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Just make sure not to hit them too hard. This is one of those things that can easily become over analysed. She isn't going to make any kind of huge decision based on wether or not you barely punch her.

Beat that b!tch man
 

skinnyguy

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If I punched a girl in the face she'd probably want to marry me. Sick world we live in.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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