Pecker
Senior Don Juan
Before you all say this is AFC, I must tell you I witnessed the following mini-conversation take place and WORK:
Guy: So say something.
Girl: Say what?
Guy: I don't know. Anything. Something interesting.
Girl: Uuuummmm, I can't think of anything interesting.
Guy: Something about YOU.
Girl: I'm a junior...I study literature?
Guy: I said somethign INTERESTING. I can do better.
Girl: You can do better huh?
Guy: Way better.
Girl: So say something interesting.
Guy: You're beautiful.
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They were sitting on opposite ends of the couch at a party and I eavesdropped this convo. She totally blushed and inched closer to him on the couch and they talked for 5 more minutes before he got the number.
It was probably the smoothest, quickest breaking-through of the ice shield I have ever seen. My question to you fellow DJs is do you think something like this will work if you're on a date and the conversation lulls?
If I'm with a girl and the conversation comes to a halt, I usually do one of two things.
1. I say "Fyack it, let HER say something" and remain in the silence for a little longer.
2. If I've already done number 1 once or twice I'll refer to something said earlier in the outing and ask a more specific question. An example is if I asked her what school she goes to half an hour ago, I'll say "So do you live on campus or off?" or something more specific about a tidbit of info I already have.
But NOW, I'm thinking the "Say Something Interesting" could be applicable to a date. It might open up a whole new can of worms and get her more playful and flirty. Even if you don't use the whole dialogue cited above, it could get you probing deeper into who she is and get the convo rolling again from there. Whatya think?
Guy: So say something.
Girl: Say what?
Guy: I don't know. Anything. Something interesting.
Girl: Uuuummmm, I can't think of anything interesting.
Guy: Something about YOU.
Girl: I'm a junior...I study literature?
Guy: I said somethign INTERESTING. I can do better.
Girl: You can do better huh?
Guy: Way better.
Girl: So say something interesting.
Guy: You're beautiful.
________________________________________________
They were sitting on opposite ends of the couch at a party and I eavesdropped this convo. She totally blushed and inched closer to him on the couch and they talked for 5 more minutes before he got the number.
It was probably the smoothest, quickest breaking-through of the ice shield I have ever seen. My question to you fellow DJs is do you think something like this will work if you're on a date and the conversation lulls?
If I'm with a girl and the conversation comes to a halt, I usually do one of two things.
1. I say "Fyack it, let HER say something" and remain in the silence for a little longer.
2. If I've already done number 1 once or twice I'll refer to something said earlier in the outing and ask a more specific question. An example is if I asked her what school she goes to half an hour ago, I'll say "So do you live on campus or off?" or something more specific about a tidbit of info I already have.
But NOW, I'm thinking the "Say Something Interesting" could be applicable to a date. It might open up a whole new can of worms and get her more playful and flirty. Even if you don't use the whole dialogue cited above, it could get you probing deeper into who she is and get the convo rolling again from there. Whatya think?