"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Player's Song (finally)

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Finally i have heard a song that puts me in the "player mode" and it is...


Shakira- Hips Dont Lie


In order to explain better the feeling I get when I listen to this song,
LISTEN IT!

Some quotes:

1. "Oh baby when you talk like that
You know you got me hypnotized
So be wise and keep on
Reading the signs of my body..."

2. "And I'm on tonight
You know my hips don't lie
And I am starting to feel you boy
Come on lets go, real slow
Don't you see baby asi es perfecto

Oh I know I am on tonight my hips don't lie
And I am starting to feel it's right
All the attraction, the tension
Don't you see baby, this is perfection..."

3. "Oh boy, I can see your body moving
Half animal, half man
I don't, don't really know what I'm doing
But you seem to have a plan
My will and self restraint
Have come to fail now, fail now
See, I am doing what I can, but I can't so you know
That's a bit too hard to explain..."
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Great song! I need more of a Outta Control song to motivate me though. With more bass ;)
 

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Hey Exp I used to love that song in terms of it motivating me, but I'm getting used to it so I found other songs :D like

juelz-santana-there-it-go-(the-whistle-song).mp3
 

i am me

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good songs, id also add "Oh Boy" by camron. that song gets me in a pimpin mood
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Superstition - Stevie Wonder
Luther Vandross - Never Too Much

To GTaC01, I see your point totally but u can't argue that there are certain songs that don't make you go..."yeaahhh". Coz music is all about making us feel something, and those songs i mentioned make me feel like "yeaaahh" lol
 

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GTac01 said:
if u need a song to PUT u in "player mode" ur doing it all wrong. Im a player because player = me and i dont need to insinuate being a player.
Don't be gay. Even pro athletes have songs that get them fired up for the game. Why should it be any different for DJs?
 

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im feelin that new camron and lil wayne - suck it or not

"vanilla ice cream she said ooooh my fav or it"
 

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It is very true that some songs evoke feelings that make you wanna go out and start picking up girls. Songs like " Down Boy" by Kylie Minogue just increase or boost up the sex drive, or i.e.: Superstar by Jamelia are good for confidence.
Years ago i always listened Slipknot, Mudvayne, Slayer and stuff like that, but it only made me aggresive for the rest of the day. Maybe that wouldn't have the same effect on the others, cuz maybe not everybody feels the music the way some of us do.
But recently I have read a study showing that music has a very suggestive power, so i guess when u listen to some pimpish music, it has smth that makes you change ur mood, and puts you in a pimp mode. Maybe i'm wrong but it worked for me so far. :up: :up:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Return of the Mack by Mark Morrison and Revolving Door by Crazy Town. That's all it takes. Irish nationalist music gets me pretty pumped for anything though.
 
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