Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Player's Song (finally)

DonSonnySagliani

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Finally i have heard a song that puts me in the "player mode" and it is...


Shakira- Hips Dont Lie


In order to explain better the feeling I get when I listen to this song,
LISTEN IT!

Some quotes:

1. "Oh baby when you talk like that
You know you got me hypnotized
So be wise and keep on
Reading the signs of my body..."

2. "And I'm on tonight
You know my hips don't lie
And I am starting to feel you boy
Come on lets go, real slow
Don't you see baby asi es perfecto

Oh I know I am on tonight my hips don't lie
And I am starting to feel it's right
All the attraction, the tension
Don't you see baby, this is perfection..."

3. "Oh boy, I can see your body moving
Half animal, half man
I don't, don't really know what I'm doing
But you seem to have a plan
My will and self restraint
Have come to fail now, fail now
See, I am doing what I can, but I can't so you know
That's a bit too hard to explain..."
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Great song! I need more of a Outta Control song to motivate me though. With more bass ;)
 

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Hey Exp I used to love that song in terms of it motivating me, but I'm getting used to it so I found other songs :D like

juelz-santana-there-it-go-(the-whistle-song).mp3
 

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good songs, id also add "Oh Boy" by camron. that song gets me in a pimpin mood
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Superstition - Stevie Wonder
Luther Vandross - Never Too Much

To GTaC01, I see your point totally but u can't argue that there are certain songs that don't make you go..."yeaahhh". Coz music is all about making us feel something, and those songs i mentioned make me feel like "yeaaahh" lol
 

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GTac01 said:
if u need a song to PUT u in "player mode" ur doing it all wrong. Im a player because player = me and i dont need to insinuate being a player.
Don't be gay. Even pro athletes have songs that get them fired up for the game. Why should it be any different for DJs?
 

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im feelin that new camron and lil wayne - suck it or not

"vanilla ice cream she said ooooh my fav or it"
 

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It is very true that some songs evoke feelings that make you wanna go out and start picking up girls. Songs like " Down Boy" by Kylie Minogue just increase or boost up the sex drive, or i.e.: Superstar by Jamelia are good for confidence.
Years ago i always listened Slipknot, Mudvayne, Slayer and stuff like that, but it only made me aggresive for the rest of the day. Maybe that wouldn't have the same effect on the others, cuz maybe not everybody feels the music the way some of us do.
But recently I have read a study showing that music has a very suggestive power, so i guess when u listen to some pimpish music, it has smth that makes you change ur mood, and puts you in a pimp mode. Maybe i'm wrong but it worked for me so far. :up: :up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Return of the Mack by Mark Morrison and Revolving Door by Crazy Town. That's all it takes. Irish nationalist music gets me pretty pumped for anything though.
 
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