"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bobbob

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She sounds like a slut, not a "playette". WTF is a playette anyways.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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GodsGiftToFatBirds

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I'd start seeing her to begin with but after a little while (say a month), if i was serious about her, i'd insist that she dropped the other guys.
And if she was serious about you too, then she would.
It all depends on whether she wants the same as you, or if she's happy to keep shagging around.

Is this a situation you're in, or just some theoretical crap? :rolleyes:
 

SeldomSeen

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
her, dancing and gaming her, shes been buying you drinks and you end on an high note after the sarge.



She's buying you drinks at 19? She contributing to a minors drinking habit. Stay away from her ass. Hahahhaha



Play the game
 

TedJustAdmitIt

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I'd get her to buy me a kebab and then take her home and rub her tummy in reward for her honesty and openess:D

It all depends on what attitude the man has towards relationships...if he prefers 1-on-1 then he probably won't be very happy but if he's a MLTR man himself then it's all chips&gravy.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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floydtheater07

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Originally posted by bobbob
She sounds like a slut, not a "playette". WTF is a playette anyways.
Let's for once be fair. The only difference between a "slvt" and a player is gender. If guys can have fun, let's admit it, girls can too.
 

superchristx

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It's painful share her time with 2 other guys. Basically you get 1/3 of a woman and that stinks! If you do this you have to see 2 other women yourself, so that you're fulfilled and don't become attached to the playette. Plus, if you have two other interested girls it will be easy to dump playette when things get uncomfortable.


Uncomfortable like when you go for a kiss, and you smell somebody else's **** on her breath! ewww
 

PRMoon

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MLTR's are the stupidest idea since LDR's. First off if this other guy is serious about her and thinks he's the only one, then finds out she's riding your pole too all the time, you could have a Jerry Springer inccident on your hands, or worse.

As a player I'd NEVER follow through with MLTR's. It's easier to date multiple girls for a short period time and phase some of them out slowly, rotating through your roster, while picking up new girls. that way you don't have to do any hard core scheduling or run the risk of one girl seeing the other because you aren't serious with any of them

Also let me mention that playing the game from a female perspective is very different then that from a mans. I could ramble on about that forever but let's just leave it at that.

If you're actully in one of these situations I say play on but don't let your emotions come into the picture at all. Use her for a good time out on the town and what not but anythoughts of it going somewhere are ultimately out of the question.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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OneArmDeeJay

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
BUT you know she has 2 other boyfriends
You will be just another statistic to her sick game. The Third Boyfriend will be nothing more then another man in her life to worship her.

Just think about it why would she go for you and only you if she can still have two if not three boyfriends?

Also

Originally posted by The_Shezzler
the one regarding MLTRs…..
is that their WRONG!

You can’t truly have an LTR with someone if you’re with someone else. That’s called cheating.

It’s either you just date or have 1 LTR that’s it. What’s the point of having Multiple GFs? If one brings on stress, emotions, drama, cost money, and headaches then having more will only increase that ten times fold.



Personally I think any girl that is making on a guy and has a bf is a slvt and if she has even more then 1 bf she’s even more then a slvt and attention wh0re. Her pockets are so deep no wonder she buys you all kinds of drinks she’s trying to real you in so she can have 3 bf, which in turns mean more money to buy another BF. Damn talk about slvt entrapment/wh0re/pimpin.

On a side note,

To post this…

She sounds like a slut, not a "playette".

And then to post this right after

WTF is a playette anyways.

Is too funny :crackup:
 

marceldwayne

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the reason why girls cannot be in MLTR is because if they get knocked up then who the ****s kid is it!?!??!

If one of my gfs got pregnant id damn make sure it was my kid before i even talked to her again.
 
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