"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Player Supreme Is Back!!!

spider_007

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ha ha ha, god, im defenitly spending too much time on this forum.:crackup: :crackup: and so are you bro.:D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wyldfire

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They've knowingly let him back a few times...and if he could behave himself they wouldn't end up banning him.

He may have a lot to offer, but he needs to have some respect for the site.
 

DJ_in_making

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will they unban PRL?
 

LIME!

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If you ban all the people who misbehave, you'll get rid of all of the "alpha males" and most of the "djs". We will be left with AFCs who never misbehave, including around girls.

IMHO, I suggest just quietly deleting Player's flame wars and ignoring his insults. He's just a guy on the internet and sometimes a good source of information.

That reminds me: I've gotta get off of here and start misbehaving.
 

Inc. ©

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler

Its good to have you back man (ps dont reply player lol)
Yeah, like it'll be hard to figure out who he is!! :crackup:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Reykhel

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IMHO, I suggest just quietly deleting Player's flame wars and ignoring his insults.
Great advice.

In other words nothing he writes is worth your time to read.

Sound, solid advice.
 
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