Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Player stole my girlfriend
- Thread starter GGR
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Typical White Knight envy. Please don't fight for that girl who is unworthy of you. If she was, she wouldn't have left you. It's time to move on and read the DJ bible on here, so that you are the one who steals other people's girlfriends not the other way around. You either hunt or be hunted.GGR said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Boy, it appears that the Red Pill is too big for you to swallow.GGR said:
Ok, white knight, if you want her back, then do this:
Send her flowers every single day and text her every hour and beg her to come back. Also call her every evening and cry on the phone and continue to bed her to come back to you. Tell her that you still love her and will still take her back even though she sucked that players c0ck and swallowed his cvm.
Please do the above and see how that works for you.
Then, when you are ready for the Red Pill, come back here.
salinechow
Senior Don Juan
GGR said:
Well that escalated quickly. Poor sap.
MillionBillionaire
Master Don Juan
Time to hit the club brah!
Tictac
Banned
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Hey Hey dude. Chill.GGR said:
I know you may be emotional at times, if you were to fight that dude. You would be made a fool in front of your "GF" for being a desperate bag and if you were to fight way2smart, you are just asking to be receiving a black eye and some doses of humiliation.
We're all here to help one another and to improve ourselves. We're not some band of douches who stole your "GF" then trying to brag.
The problem here is yourself. The more you put blame on the "Player" , Sosuave or other Don Juans here. You will just suffer from more burns and downfalls. Start with yourself and find your faults and start to improve yourself and love yourself from there.
Seriously, If you were flawless. Why would your So Called "GF" Leave you for Mr. Playah