mikeraw
Don Juan
So this past Saturday I had a get-together at my house... mostly a football night, but some chicks came over too, including one of my plates. She's complete hotness... looks like Giselle Bundchen... anyways, we all partied until very late and one by one, everyone would start passing out...
At the end of the night, around 6:30 AM, it was just my plate, one of my good buddies and one if his plates... So we decided to get in my jacuzzi and continue drinking wine and just shooting the bull... Obviously, it was just a few minutes 'til we started making out with our chicks and all our clothes came off, which is no big deal... that's what hot tubs are for... just some friends messing around... The entire time, my buddy and I mutually respected each others' girls but whatever, we sampled each other's girls, too (BTW, his was a fatty, gross, but whatever... alcochol.) Then my girl and I went back to my bedroom and got it on.
I didn't really care about my friend fooling around until I saw them kiss each other on the lips when we were going to my bed... it was just a brief pop kiss, but it still kinda bothered me... not at that exact moment because we were all drunk, but the following day when I woke up and started thinking about it.
The following day, my other friends that had passed out all over my house offered to take this girl back into town (I live in the suburbs). Now this girl just moved to Houston from Seattle, doesn't know too many people, and I leave for Alaska today. I know what I'm feeling... the initial phase of ONEitis... And I know how my friends are... idiots that can't get their own chicks, so I know that they probably asked her for her number. There's not much I can do from so far away and I don't get back into town until Saturday morning.
I don't want any of my friends hooking up with her... what the heck can I do? Not much, right? I already called my girl to say bye and that we'll go out on SAT night... My friends and I are all jerks and drunks, and we have a number of chicks in common that we've all hooked up with in the past, but I kinda like this one for myself only... BTW, I'm the youngest one of the group... all these other guys are in their mid to late 30's... so even if I have a man-to-man talk with the one that I'm most particularly worried about (he's a "natural"), it may just get brushed off...
Should I ask around about these days that I'm gone?
I can't tell this girl to be exclusive... I KNOW that... purely out of principle... plus, here's the kicker... she's going through a divorce... one 5 yr old kid. So no possibilities for a serious LTR, I think.
What do you guys recommend?
At the end of the night, around 6:30 AM, it was just my plate, one of my good buddies and one if his plates... So we decided to get in my jacuzzi and continue drinking wine and just shooting the bull... Obviously, it was just a few minutes 'til we started making out with our chicks and all our clothes came off, which is no big deal... that's what hot tubs are for... just some friends messing around... The entire time, my buddy and I mutually respected each others' girls but whatever, we sampled each other's girls, too (BTW, his was a fatty, gross, but whatever... alcochol.) Then my girl and I went back to my bedroom and got it on.
I didn't really care about my friend fooling around until I saw them kiss each other on the lips when we were going to my bed... it was just a brief pop kiss, but it still kinda bothered me... not at that exact moment because we were all drunk, but the following day when I woke up and started thinking about it.
The following day, my other friends that had passed out all over my house offered to take this girl back into town (I live in the suburbs). Now this girl just moved to Houston from Seattle, doesn't know too many people, and I leave for Alaska today. I know what I'm feeling... the initial phase of ONEitis... And I know how my friends are... idiots that can't get their own chicks, so I know that they probably asked her for her number. There's not much I can do from so far away and I don't get back into town until Saturday morning.
I don't want any of my friends hooking up with her... what the heck can I do? Not much, right? I already called my girl to say bye and that we'll go out on SAT night... My friends and I are all jerks and drunks, and we have a number of chicks in common that we've all hooked up with in the past, but I kinda like this one for myself only... BTW, I'm the youngest one of the group... all these other guys are in their mid to late 30's... so even if I have a man-to-man talk with the one that I'm most particularly worried about (he's a "natural"), it may just get brushed off...
Should I ask around about these days that I'm gone?
I can't tell this girl to be exclusive... I KNOW that... purely out of principle... plus, here's the kicker... she's going through a divorce... one 5 yr old kid. So no possibilities for a serious LTR, I think.
What do you guys recommend?