"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ProtoMan1

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Hey guys,

Getting to the points. There was a girl that flaked out on me and since then I debated whether to be nice about it or just drop and the hell with her. :D

So I decided to move on and just cut her out. I waited a couple of days to see if she wanted to apologize for what she did and she said nothing. We were nice for a little bit but then I just thought, ok, the hell with her. We'll call her Jen.

Fast forward to a couple of days ago, since then I have pretty much ignored her. The only awkward thing is that we have a class together and the other day I noticed she was trying to get me jealous or something. She was sitting next to a guy that I know she isn't dating (probably an AFC haha) and trying to sit in line where its barely in eye shot. So after class we were in talking distance and I just ignored her and looked else where when she was looking at me.

Then I saw my other friend, HB8 Dani, and we started talking. Jen was looking at me again probably thinking that I was talking to her! haha. Only because they were right next to each other and so Dani and I were just talking away then Jen left. Soon after we saw each other prior to another class starting that we have and she did not go.

Apparently I have an impact on her still. :crackup: Before this is you have one-itis, haha. Why do you think she is acting this way? Anything I can do? And did I play this right by dropping her. :D Thanks guys
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by ProtoMan1
There was a girl that flaked out on me and since then I debated whether to be nice about it or just drop and the hell with her.
There is no “was” there is "is" because you are still obsess with her.

She flaked out but you still wait.

Originally posted by ProtoMan1
So I decided to move on and just cut her out
No you didn’t read your next sentence hell just read you post

Originally posted by ProtoMan1
I waited a couple of days to see if she wanted to apologize for what she did and she said nothing.
She doesn’t have to apologize get over trying to think a woman is going to do it. She’s not your women so let it go. Stop being an AFC

Originally posted by ProtoMan1
Fast forward to a couple of days ago, since then I have pretty much ignored her.
Oh that’s not childish oh no…

Originally posted by ProtoMan1
The only awkward thing is that we have a class together and the other day I noticed she was trying to get me jealous or something. She was sitting next to a guy that I know she isn't dating (probably an AFC haha) and trying to sit in line where its barely in eye shot.
It’s only awkward if you make it so.

She wasn’t trying to do anything your readying too much into it.

Remember she flaked out on you why would she make you jealous?

Originally posted by ProtoMan1
So after class we were in talking distance and I just ignored her and looked else where when she was looking at me.
2nd grade stuff

Originally posted by ProtoMan1
Then I saw my other friend, HB8 Dani, and we started talking. Jen was looking at me again probably thinking that I was talking to her! haha.
You are reading too much into it. So she looked at who her friend was talking too. Whocares? That doesn’t mean a thing.



Originally posted by ProtoMan1
Only because they were right next to each other and so Dani and I were just talking away then Jen left.
So she had something else to do.

Blow her noise,
Take a piss,
Suk some guy off,
Who knows and who cares

Originally posted by ProtoMan1
Apparently I have an impact on her still.
No you don’t and you never did it’s just all in your head.

Originally posted by ProtoMan1
Before this is you have one-itis, haha. Why do you think she is acting this way?
She’s not acting in anyway. You are just THINK she is but really she is probably just going about her day and just happen to look at you or past you and at the times she does this your thinking its cause she is jealous.

How the hell do you think that?

How can she have oneitis for you when she is flaking on you.?

That doesn’t make any sense and it just doesn’t happen.

If she had a High Interest Level in you she would be calling you and NOT flaking on you but she doe flake on you.

Originally posted by ProtoMan1
Anything I can do?
Yeah, Let her go.

Originally posted by ProtoMan1
And did I play this right by dropping her. Thanks guys
No There wasn't any game play just in your head.

So yes FORGET her and MOVE ON
 

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I hope this story took place in an elementary school
 
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