"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alright so this girl liked me a lot and she wanted to **** me. She'd always invite me to things and want to hang out with me. I would hang out with her sometimes but i would flake on her a lot. I would lead her on and make her think i'm gonna make out with her but i made her wait. she would tell me she wants me in her bed. eventually after a few weeks of hanging out with her a finally made out with her. i never tapped her cuz i just wasn't feeling her. she just didnt meet my standards. then one day she sends me a text saying "so i guess im not attractive enough for you". and im like "wow quit being a drama queen. im sorry i never hooked up with you. i just never felt like it. sorry. have a nice life."

ohhhh it felt sooooooo good! i totally played that chick. i made her wait and wait on me. i was so hard to get. she wanted me sooooo bad. but i just never wanted to **** her. i just had to stick with my high standards. it felt so good because girls do this to guys all the time. yeeyyyaaa
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No disrespect to you my man, but I dont really think thats the best mindset to have with women. Getting revenge on a girl to repay her for the follies of womankind just seems petty. Leading her on just to turn her down?? come on man...



"Revenge is always the weak pleasure of a little and narrow mind" - Decimus Junius Juvenal
 

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Karma is a *****.

Although it sounded slightly like she wanted a relationship?
Which is bad, you could have just said you didn't want one.
But still hung out when you got bored. Kinda like a **** buddy.
Or at least get some head bro...

Don't get me wrong, I'm a strong believer in playing hard to get!
Giving the girl a challenge. She didn't give you one, that's why you didn't "feel" her. Sounds like we are in the same boat as far as, I only **** girls I'm "feeling". Although like I said, I'd try to turn her out for some head every now and then.

I wouldn't be a **** to her dude. Seriously, it will come back around on you. She'll run her mouth. If someone brings you up, her response will hurt your rep! Its complicated but you can still be her friend. Use her as a backup / rebound (god i hope not), reference, flirt with her.

Props on playing hard to get.
What was the time line, like I'm betting you played hard to get for 3 weeks then she gave up. Plus it sounds like you played REALLY hard to get.

eh... Good Luck
 
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The Juan and only said:
No disrespect to you my man, but I dont really think thats the best mindset to have with women. Getting revenge on a girl to repay her for the follies of womankind just seems petty. Leading her on just to turn her down?? come on man...



"Revenge is always the weak pleasure of a little and narrow mind" - Decimus Junius Juvenal
i didn't set out to get revenge on womankind. it just kind of happened that way. she was real insecure, immature, childish, and pretty annoying and i just felt like ****ing with her. it felt good to be wanted for that long. it was nice having a chick go after me instead of the other way so i just played her as long as i could.
 
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Scorched said:
Karma is a *****.

Although it sounded slightly like she wanted a relationship?
Which is bad, you could have just said you didn't want one.
But still hung out when you got bored. Kinda like a **** buddy.
Or at least get some head bro...

Don't get me wrong, I'm a strong believer in playing hard to get!
Giving the girl a challenge. She didn't give you one, that's why you didn't "feel" her. Sounds like we are in the same boat as far as, I only **** girls I'm "feeling". Although like I said, I'd try to turn her out for some head every now and then.

I wouldn't be a **** to her dude. Seriously, it will come back around on you. She'll run her mouth. If someone brings you up, her response will hurt your rep! Its complicated but you can still be her friend. Use her as a backup / rebound (god i hope not), reference, flirt with her.

Props on playing hard to get.
What was the time line, like I'm betting you played hard to get for 3 weeks then she gave up. Plus it sounds like you played REALLY hard to get.

eh... Good Luck
it was actually like 2-3 months. it was "extreme hard to get". it was pretty fun too. you guys should try it sometime.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LaDanian Tomlinson said:
i didn't set out to get revenge on womankind. it just kind of happened that way. she was real insecure, immature, childish, and pretty annoying and i just felt like ****ing with her. it felt good to be wanted for that long. it was nice having a chick go after me instead of the other way so i just played her as long as i could.
Fair play. Ive just had enough of the women haters on here.

Ok. Giving them a taste of their own medicine once in a while cant be too much of a bad thing. But like I said before, doing it out of either revenge or as some form of ego-boost isnt the way imho. Just got to rise above that shi-at where possible.
 

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LaDanian Tomlinson said:
ohhhh it felt sooooooo good! i totally played that chick. i made her wait and wait on me. i was so hard to get. she wanted me sooooo bad. but i just never wanted to **** her. i just had to stick with my high standards. it felt so good because girls do this to guys all the time. yeeyyyaaa
You like being in control, dont you? Feels good to have the power, huh? Any unresolved issues manifesting themselves from your subconscious?
 
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