"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Played me to my senses.

Pogba

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After I broke up with her , she found a new man within a month & i can't lie that made me make a panic move. I started to try and get back together again , I didn't reach out but she always called me and msgs , we even slept together twice while she was with this man.

Anyways from the first time we had sex , every feeling I had for her started to disappear ; I started questioning if she can do this then she most likely did while with me :crackup: So I stepped back a little and she kept reaching out ...one day she called me like 6 times in the morning then left 5 messages for us to hang out ...I was busy so I got back to her in the evening.
Now the most ****ed up things happened , she deleted her msgs she sent and left what I sent to her so it looked like I was begging her to hang out.:crackup: Funny thing is one of her friends posted it on twitter and I found out , with the caption " they always come back when you can give two ****s "

Woow that night I was FURIOUS , but I went to the gym to cool off. When I got home , I deleted and blocked her from everything. Added her to my auto reject list which basically blocks calls automatically. Anyways for this week I got like 10 calls from unknown numbers then tonight , 2 of her friends started to like my pictures on Facebook. Later on at night she msgs me " hey how are you doing "

Currently fighting the urge to slam everything on her face and tell her to never even attempt to dial my number but another side just says to leave it and kill her with silence.
I know , I made chump decisions ..finally figured out it was a game for her all along.
Beware guys , sometimes you think you are doing the playing but she already started her own games. Thankfully I'm not invested in her and have other plates on my hands.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bingo-Player

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Yea i know where your coming from been caught out many a time where i thought i was firmly in control with a woman and ended up being a pawn in the grand scheme of things

Women are so clever they are light years ahead of men in manipulation
be on your guard always

p.s

Resist that urge to bite and call her out, a weaker man would...... silence is your greatest weapon against a woman in the wrong they cannot stand that instant withdrawal of attention especially when they know they are too blame it’s like taking heroin away from an addict

When you simply walk away she kows Her illusion has crumbled , she knows you have seen her for what she really is and theres nothing she can do to change that

Its something you can bet your last dollar she will never forget regardless of how happy she portrays herself to be to the world take solice in this
 

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Ah the silent revenge is the best. When they are 60 and menopause has taken its toll... you be laughing
 

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Well NO sh*t Sherlock.....AWALT

You're young & you will probably do it again. Hopefully you wrapped it up.. go get TESTED!!
 

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Thanks fellas , I simply ignored the message and deleted it.
Lesson learned , experience to pass on.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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