"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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According to http://wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn?s=playboy the word PLAYBOY means a man devoted to the pursuit of pleasure. PLAYBOY is an American men's magazine reaching into every form of media. The magazine is published monthly and features pictures of nude women along with various articles on fashion, sports, consumer goods, and public figures. Lots od celebrities(singers, actresses, models, etc.) have posed for Playboy over the years. Here is some of them : Marilyn Monroe (December 1953), Kim Basinger (February 1983), Linda Evans (July 1971), Nancy Sinatra (May 1995), Samantha Fox (October 1996) etc. Men like girls, so why wouldn't girls like men?

When I say PLAYBOY, I do not mean rich, handsome man who has lots of fun and everything in life so it is very hard to marry him. I mean an ordinary boy devoted to the pursuit of pleasure. He doesn't have to be prince charming, not rich not beautiful but he likes girls and that is what makes him a playboy because he is into pursuing women into relationship. He is not even suitable for serious relationship and he is more for one night stand.

He is just the man I avoid to go to bed with. He does not have the looks, nor money, he does not have sense of humor anyone would desire and will not give me reason to love him. So, are you playboy?:)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What! Really is this a question? Sooooo you bring up the word playboy and google it and find the definition about a guy wanting pleasure from a women and is not fun or rich or anthing like that but he does pursue women and beds them.........how the FVCK does this guy do it then! "He" by your definition is an AFC which has no good things going for him but somehow gets to bed women wow.....and then you avoid this guy by not going for him?????

This is why I think women dont belong here...I mean really come on *sigh* jeez hahaha .
 

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j0n024 said:
Sooooo you bring up the word playboy and google it and find the definition about a guy wanting pleasure from a women and is not fun or rich or anthing like that but he does pursue women and beds them.........how the FVCK does this guy do it then! "He" by your definition is an AFC which has no good things going for him but somehow gets to bed women wow.....and then you avoid this guy by not going for him?????

This is why I think women dont belong here...I mean really come on *sigh* jeez hahaha .
Bringing up the word PLAYBOY means I have some feelings toward it and not just repeating someone else's definition. I didn't say "He" has not good things going on for him but somehow gets to bed women, but there are not many of them. If you think that women don't belong here then you are not Don Juan:box: nor playboy because they are supposed to like girls.
 

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cyberlady said:
According to http://wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn?s=playboy the word PLAYBOY means a man devoted to the pursuit of pleasure. PLAYBOY is an American men's magazine reaching into every form of media. The magazine is published monthly and features pictures of nude women along with various articles on fashion, sports, consumer goods, and public figures. Lots od celebrities(singers, actresses, models, etc.) have posed for Playboy over the years. Here is some of them : Marilyn Monroe (December 1953), Kim Basinger (February 1983), Linda Evans (July 1971), Nancy Sinatra (May 1995), Samantha Fox (October 1996) etc. Men like girls, so why wouldn't girls like men?

When I say PLAYBOY, I do not mean rich, handsome man who has lots of fun and everything in life so it is very hard to marry him. I mean an ordinary boy devoted to the pursuit of pleasure. He doesn't have to be prince charming, not rich not beautiful but he likes girls and that is what makes him a playboy because he is into pursuing women into relationship. He is not even suitable for serious relationship and he is more for one night stand.

He is just the man I avoid to go to bed with. He does not have the looks, nor money, he does not have sense of humor anyone would desire and will not give me reason to love him. So, are you playboy?:)
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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