"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Playboy article confirms that the Tindersphere is hypergamous

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http://www.playboy.com/articles/you-can-blame-evolution-for-your-lack-of-tinder-matches

A man’s chance of being liked back seems to be pretty damn low. As a result, guys probably find that being overly selective early on makes for a frustrating experience. This may lead men to send out a lot of initial likes to increase their number of matches. It’s only once they get their matches that guys become more discerning.

On the other hand, when a woman likes a man’s profile, she has good odds of being liked back. On top of that, she’s getting a lot of likes from men right-swiping haphazardly. In order to prevent being swamped with matches, women are likely to be more selective. This means that, by the time their matches roll in, women are probably much more invested in them than their male counterparts.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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