"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Play sports and attempt to gain weight at the same time?

ScrewIt

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I've played soccer over the course of the summer and it came to a halt early this fall. My soccer crew are getting back into playing soccer weekly again and i woudl love to join them.

but here's the problem i'm underweight and started getting back on track with my workout program to gain mass.

Many of you say that someone that's tryin to gain shouldnt even be doing cardio, since it burns calories which i have none to spare. Well soccer is a form of cardio. Would playing soccer in addition to my workout program hinder my progress??
Afterall my muscles are always healing every week due to working out.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Synthesize

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Yes, just eat more dirty. When I am playing sports, I stop eating so clean and I can usually maintain muscle mass better. It's a fine line to tread, though. It's easy to lose your discipline and get a few pounds of fat. So keep at it.
 

MrFitness880

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you dont have to eat dirtier, just eat more and make sure you're getting a lot of rest

muscle mass is great, but health is important too. in the long run thats what you'll be happy you maintained
 

ScrewIt

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alright sounds good to me. now that break is on i should be able to rest well
 

VIVAlasVEGASBaby

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i play soccer too. I'm on anthony's program and in the book it says playing a sport on the side isnt a big deal but preferably put your workouts on days other than your soccer training.

SO

i go to the gym monday, wednesday, and friday.

Practice on tuesday and thursday

Also eat right after you're done with the practice.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You WILL grow if you eat enough! It's WHAT you eat that sends the message to body which tissue it should focus on building. You eat a lot of protein, the body will give the order to make muscle (provided you have stimulated it correct and given it enough time to rest). Get in plenty of carbs to have energy for your workouts, and keep carbs low in the evening to avoid fat gain during sleep. Do NOT hold back carbs post-workout if you work out in the evening, though. Keep fat at medium throughout the day, and DO remember that olive oil and flaxseed oil is your friend. I'd also recommend a multi vitamin, zinc, magnesium, calcium and vitamin C.

Have fun! :cool:
 
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