"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Play hard to get (From Experience) ... Must Read #1

Tkman

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I am going to share with you guys some of my play hard to get experience. Please read it, this is not for me ... THIS IS FOR YOU. I became really good with the play hard to get technique, so this is for you. Please everyone else share your opinion, experience, negative/positive comments, etc.

From experience, playing hard will drive the HB's crazy. This will make her respect you and make her view you as a "rare men". Plus, HB's will view you as a challenge (trying to seduce you), adventurous (what ever she's thinking? who really cares), and different from all other chumps.

DAY 1

Scenerio: I just arrived in class 1 hour late.

Me: Sitting chilling in class and listening to prof.
Two HB's just arrived to class, also 1 hour late (THEY SIT NEXT TO ME). There is more to the story, one of the HB's was checking me out from head to toe , last class. But, what did I do? Not give a ****, that's right. She was standing with her friends, there were about 10 in the group. I walked straight passed them, she looked at me, I looked straight back at her [Very Strong Eye contact, chicks can read signs very well, trust me]. My eyes send signals to her, "I know your checking me out, but I dont care. You have to impress me or I will fire you". Let's continue the Scenerio, while the two HB's arrived to class, the one that was checking me out, told her friend to go first, in other words to sit next to me. See, she is challenged and afraid of the challenge, she knows if she makes a mistake "i will fire her from the list". The sit next to me, I still dont give her attention; she is peaking at me ( I ain't stupid I can see).

Class Break ...

I get a drink (soft drink), and chill with some of the classmates. While, she again check me out, while I was walking. Break over, I go back to class, to my suprise her friend is not in class and she is sitting next to my seat :D. I sit next to her, bla bla bla (I was making jokes, making fun of some of the classmates) she was smiling, playing with her hair, etc. End of class, I ask her fro her name, I ended. Yes, some of you are yelling and screaming "# close, # close, # close". I say to you screamers, "NO, NO, NO". Why? I will tell you why because #1 I dont give a **** #2 she still has not impressed me #3 her puszy is not the world for me #4 I need to make her go more crazy :).


DAY 2 (A Week later)


Arrive to class 1 hour late, I dont know where she is sitting nor do I care.

Class Break ...

I chilling with some of the classmates, while she was standing probably waiting for me to say something. HELL NO !!! I am not impressed, "what the hell are you wearing lady". Last week, you were wearing revealing cloth, what happened this week. I need to see more skin.

Tkman not impressed = no talking to you lady. I ignore her, no eye contact, or anything else.

What do you think is going through her mind? One of the two things.

#1. ******* i will never talk to hime again (I doubted it)
#2. I really better straighten up and give this one of a kind "rare men" what he wants or I will be "fired".


Play hard to get (From Experience) ... Must Read #2. Some other time sorry I got not time to do it today.

Peace
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This is more of a field report, so off to Discussion it goes.
 

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