"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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I'm going to hang out and game a chick at her homecoming in 2 weeks, and I need to put on a good impression, cause shes going with another guy (I'm going dateless so I can have freedom to flirt and meet with other girls).

What I wanna do is shoot for higher value than another guy (one shes in love with), but not by lowering his value, instead by revealing mine as already higher than the other guy's value.

I need advice on some techniques, tricks, teasing and flirting, touching, body language and generating interest level through "playing" with her, etc. which I'd like some ideas for.

I haven't seen this girl in 2-3 months, so thats why I emphasize on gaming her. I need to reestablish myself as "the prize" because shes trying to make herself into the prize... and I don't win her, she wins me.
I have basically a day to generate some good attraction, and I'd like some help since it'll only be a short amount of time I have to work with.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ostepop

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instead of going dateless, go with a HB. Problem solved
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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impossible... I only know like 2 ppl at this school and I was invited by an UG.
don't wanna have limited oppertunity by a date anyway o_O
 
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