"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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play a girl at her own game?

Swede54

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well im getting no where with this one girl, i got rejected yes. Butttt not completely. She still likes me its obvious and what not, but there isnt that extra boost to get her to want to be with me. She doesnt expect me to date anyone else. When the thought enters her mind in conversations between us she goes "just remeber im the most beautiful girl you know", crap like that. So i planned on saying me and dthis other girl are seeing each other. Just to see how she reacts, was thinking this might pull her interest a bit.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Swede54

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bump. Or is this just gonna back me into a corner?
 

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Dude, just wipe her off of your life. She's playing you because shes a pwincessy wittuw girw. Drop her like a bag of dirt. All shes good for is sex. If she comes back after you pull the Permanent goodbye card( now known as PG) just give her sex and drop her like shes old news.

Shes not worth your time. Drop her.
 

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Originally posted by Luveno
Dude, just wipe her off of your life. She's playing you because shes a pwincessy wittuw girw. Drop her like a bag of dirt. All shes good for is sex. If she comes back after you pull the Permanent goodbye card( now known as PG) just give her sex and drop her like shes old news.

Shes not worth your time. Drop her.

haha i like your PG analogy.
 

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don't ever listen to what a girl says. Women say one thing but they do another. Keep that in mind.

If you want her then get her with ACTIONS and not words. get her alone some how and just start rubing her shoulders, whisper in her ear, and then kiss her neck. Be the bad boy for once. Trick her! get her alone. She will love you for it.

Don't listen to people who tell you to forget about her. Just forget about what she says.

Some of the best lays for me came when I simply looked into the girls eyes and made a move. Nothing needs to be said. You just need to learn seduction without opening your big mouth.

Think about it. would you turn a girl down that started to put her hand down your pants? No you wouldn't. Even if she was fat. well the same is true for women. As long as she doesn't find you ugly she will let you turn her on.

The reason you are getting no place with this girl is because you are not leading the way. A woman won't make the first move on you. You have to make the first move on her. She won't suddenly say, "ok I want you now". She wants you to be "The Ladies man". that is all she is asking of you.


So now that you are "The ladies man". How can she resist you? She dreams about a guy like you. A guy who can drive her wild without saying a word. All women like a guy who knows how to trick them into a situation where they will feel confortable to put out.



The quickest way to a mans heart is through his penis.
The quickest way to a womans heart is through her neck.


Be the Ladies man. be a DJ.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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00Kevin, you nailed this one right on the head, bravo!
 

Swede54

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Originally posted by 00Kevin
don't ever listen to what a girl says. Women say one thing but they do another. Keep that in mind.

If you want her then get her with ACTIONS and not words. get her alone some how and just start rubing her shoulders, whisper in her ear, and then kiss her neck. Be the bad boy for once. Trick her! get her alone. She will love you for it.

Don't listen to people who tell you to forget about her. Just forget about what she says.

Some of the best lays for me came when I simply looked into the girls eyes and made a move. Nothing needs to be said. You just need to learn seduction without opening your big mouth.

Think about it. would you turn a girl down that started to put her hand down your pants? No you wouldn't. Even if she was fat. well the same is true for women. As long as she doesn't find you ugly she will let you turn her on.

The reason you are getting no place with this girl is because you are not leading the way. A woman won't make the first move on you. You have to make the first move on her. She won't suddenly say, "ok I want you now". She wants you to be "The Ladies man". that is all she is asking of you.


So now that you are "The ladies man". How can she resist you? She dreams about a guy like you. A guy who can drive her wild without saying a word. All women like a guy who knows how to trick them into a situation where they will feel confortable to put out.



The quickest way to a mans heart is through his penis.
The quickest way to a womans heart is through her neck.


Be the Ladies man. be a DJ.


Man this was a great reply, your absalutely right!!! And she gave me the perfect ammo, one night she told me exactly how to turn her on.
 
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