Plausible Deniability-Its role in a 1 night stand.

[TheException]

Nothing special here....just a field report from a ONS this weekend, and how things develop when a girl wants the alpha d1ck. Just take note of how a girl will/must make excuses.....sex must be the male's fault gentlemen. Read between the lines and just go for it. She will make an excuse to come to your house for only one reason...

Met a random HB6 at a concert this weekend. Didnt really talk to much, just noticed her giving IOI's out the a$$(proximity, hair, etc) so id drop a couple ****y funny lines and that was about it. Went for the kiss at some point after a high point(made her laugh, she was giving signs she wanted a kiss, etc) and obviously got it. During a slow song, grabbed her and danced. Pretty lengthy makeout session during the slow dance and was tempted to offer to go to a car to go bang it out....but realized id much rather listen to the music.

Fast forward to the end of concert...she reaches her hand in my pocket and puts her number in my phone. Got a text 1:30am that same night(concert over about midnight) saying shes in my college town.

HB:"Im in _____ and might need a place to sleep cause there isnt enough room at my friends house.
Me: K. Im driving home.
HB:Ok! Could you pick me up?
Me: Sure. 20 Mins.

Pick her up and she says she has to use my shower. Ahhh a girl whose gonna clean up herself for me...how nice. Contemplated going in the shower while she was in there and just start banging her there....but again id rather start drinking water and get some food. She comes out and just crawls in my bed, and gets under the covers and rolls over like shes going to bed......lol

This is where guys get hung up. They think oh no....she doesnt want to hookup, and they never escalate. They get inside of their own head, and screw everything up for themselves. LOOK, women need excuses so they dont come off as s1uts. Bottom line...she made excuse to come over(lame excuse lol), shes in my bed. THATS IT. Dont need to think about anything else.....so i turn her over and start making out and the rest is history.

-Dont be scared if she doesnt just strip and start blowing you...you as the man must make it happen.
-She must make excuses for sex to happen...so even if they seem like a bad thing they are not. Read between the lines and escalate.
-If a girl is in your goddamn bed.....ESCALATE. Girls would never get in bed with a guy they find gross/creepy. Ive read wayyyy too many threads where the guy doesnt escalate when a girl is in his bed.

*Also note how she is never my priority. I WANTED to listen to music instead of have sex. I WANTED TO EAT rather than bang her. No need to be like a 16 year old boy, and just slobbering to get sex and being super pushy. Just chill and things will happen.

 

[Mike32ct]

Solid.

One girl I pulled by asking her to "come watch some TV."

She did NOT start making out with me and stripping when she got to my place. She lay down on the bed and actually was watching TV for twenty or thirty minutes. She was almost ignoring me in a sense and seemed more interested in watching TV. She wasn't even making eye contact with me. She wasn't saying anything either. She was chatty in public, but dead quiet at my place. I was almost ready for the "It was nice meeting you" rejection ending. But I knew better...

I knew she didn't come over for TV. I started playing with her hair. Then slowly started kissing her. Then BJ and full close.

 

[plate's_empty]

Great post exception.

THIS is how women progress in a pickup. Give her more room to isolate you and give her the tools to do so, while also never verbally stating what it is that will be happening. In their minds this gives them the ability to say "it just happened".

haha I just posted this reasoning in another thread. So true. Give them an excuse they can tell themselves, or their friends: I needed a ride, a place to stay, he was going to order a movie that I really wanted to see. He had a pool and it was hot out. LOL. Anything, that they can explain besides: I just wanted to have sex with them.

Men want to have sex, yes. But so do women. Why would a woman not want to lie there and have a man give her a bunch of orgasms? Because society frowns upon promiscuous girls. So they need an excuse. Most of them anyway

 

[dmvdav]

good post.
reminds me that I need to go to a concert soon.
i swear it's the easiest place to get girls.
They see all their friends dancing with their boyfriends and need someone to fill that void.
plus it's so simple to start conversations about music.

 

[JoeMarron]

Very true. I'll never understand how a man could let a chick sleep in his bed the whole night and not do anything.