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How Platonic Female Friendships Are Beneficial To You
In my post bender recovery today I read up on a very contentious discussion in the mature forum.
Bugsquish posted about the benefits of PLATONIC FEMALE FRIENDSHIP.
The hate it inspired was surprising. What he spoke about was common sense as far as i'm concerned. Now I gotta twitch to throw this out to all of yall.
Because it is very beneficial
I'm a dude who grew up in family of five boys. All we do when we hang out is drink, talk politics, nerd stuff, play sports and beat the living sh*t out of each other, its a blast! Having close male friends is essential to the male experience, absolutely. But don't discount the value of being close to the opposite sex, (without sex).
The obvious benefit is networking. All of my homegirls know I'm an un-repentant manwh0re. We hang because it's fun, (which by the way all girls wanna do is have fun.) Half the time they entice me out by telling me they have hot and single friends with them. Sometimes it pans out sometimes it doesn't. But its very entertaining to be the requested courtesy fvck of your crew(s).
-This here is very important cause learning how to have inane fun with girls will directly translate into better game.
-It will exponentially improve your approaches and make them more natural as you understand the random flow of conversation that chicks revel in.
-You will become better at recognizing their games as they rarely ever stop gaming each other.
-It will teach you the spectrum of personality types of women and allow for better selection of whom you bed.
-Rolling with a mixed-sex crew into the bars makes opening the easiest thing on the planet. I've even experienced a few times being told by my lady friends that I got this chick and I should just take her home.
-You will truly understand the reality that every woman is seriously insecure, no matter how hot or head strong, and you will learn aspects of being the solid man required to maintain relationships.
-Additionally you will actually acquire wing-girls who help you and ask for your advice about dudes they're attracted too. Do they follow it? RARELY. But I digress...
-It will improve your interactions in your professional life and will enhance the value as a person you should be ideally providing and not projecting.
-Also girls who you are not romantically entwined with but have mutual respect for, (actions not words,) are very capable of giving objective advice. Take it with a shot, red pill and salt but it can be very insightful.
If my goals for hanging out with chicks was for just getting laid, I'd be a creep. I see those dudes when we're out and only the smoothest survive. I love a good time with people and as social creatures its worth your effort too.
If you spend your life seeing women as the maniacal side of our species, all you will meet are malevolent women. I've found just as many underhanded men with malicious intent in the world. Its just naturally easier for us to recognize it in them.
I made this mistake a lot when I was younger, my brothers and I still joke that our mother, (a BPD,) is the source of all evil. Its not worth it. Don't scam yourself out of world of experience cause others are bitter.
BUT! This requires RESPECTING YOURSELF, taking the red pill, understanding reality and enjoying it.
Oh, and dont be the chump. NOBODY LIKES A SUCK-UP.
Its a yin and a yang gentlemen.
I'm far from a prolific poster here, but there's lots of bad advice running around in the manosphere in general. I feel inspired to say what.
Life is beautiful and people are beautiful, but you must frame it that way.
Game on
In my post bender recovery today I read up on a very contentious discussion in the mature forum.
Bugsquish posted about the benefits of PLATONIC FEMALE FRIENDSHIP.
The hate it inspired was surprising. What he spoke about was common sense as far as i'm concerned. Now I gotta twitch to throw this out to all of yall.
Because it is very beneficial
I'm a dude who grew up in family of five boys. All we do when we hang out is drink, talk politics, nerd stuff, play sports and beat the living sh*t out of each other, its a blast! Having close male friends is essential to the male experience, absolutely. But don't discount the value of being close to the opposite sex, (without sex).
The obvious benefit is networking. All of my homegirls know I'm an un-repentant manwh0re. We hang because it's fun, (which by the way all girls wanna do is have fun.) Half the time they entice me out by telling me they have hot and single friends with them. Sometimes it pans out sometimes it doesn't. But its very entertaining to be the requested courtesy fvck of your crew(s).
-This here is very important cause learning how to have inane fun with girls will directly translate into better game.
-It will exponentially improve your approaches and make them more natural as you understand the random flow of conversation that chicks revel in.
-You will become better at recognizing their games as they rarely ever stop gaming each other.
-It will teach you the spectrum of personality types of women and allow for better selection of whom you bed.
-Rolling with a mixed-sex crew into the bars makes opening the easiest thing on the planet. I've even experienced a few times being told by my lady friends that I got this chick and I should just take her home.
-You will truly understand the reality that every woman is seriously insecure, no matter how hot or head strong, and you will learn aspects of being the solid man required to maintain relationships.
-Additionally you will actually acquire wing-girls who help you and ask for your advice about dudes they're attracted too. Do they follow it? RARELY. But I digress...
-It will improve your interactions in your professional life and will enhance the value as a person you should be ideally providing and not projecting.
-Also girls who you are not romantically entwined with but have mutual respect for, (actions not words,) are very capable of giving objective advice. Take it with a shot, red pill and salt but it can be very insightful.
If my goals for hanging out with chicks was for just getting laid, I'd be a creep. I see those dudes when we're out and only the smoothest survive. I love a good time with people and as social creatures its worth your effort too.
If you spend your life seeing women as the maniacal side of our species, all you will meet are malevolent women. I've found just as many underhanded men with malicious intent in the world. Its just naturally easier for us to recognize it in them.
I made this mistake a lot when I was younger, my brothers and I still joke that our mother, (a BPD,) is the source of all evil. Its not worth it. Don't scam yourself out of world of experience cause others are bitter.
BUT! This requires RESPECTING YOURSELF, taking the red pill, understanding reality and enjoying it.
Oh, and dont be the chump. NOBODY LIKES A SUCK-UP.
Its a yin and a yang gentlemen.
I'm far from a prolific poster here, but there's lots of bad advice running around in the manosphere in general. I feel inspired to say what.
Life is beautiful and people are beautiful, but you must frame it that way.
Game on
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