plates

[Albatross953]

So with a job, kid, and aggressive self improvement do you find more than a couple plates is too many? I have two active plus one that's nuts over me I'm not sure about plus one with ex issues I've gone ghost on.
How many would you guys typically have on the go?

 

[backbreaker]

I can only speak from my personal experience but when I was doing everything right, working, gym, giving my hobbies adquate time, no more than 2 serious plates and maybe 1-2 oribeters/stand by plates. i didn't have time to fully entertain anything more than 2 women. i would actually spend time with 2 girls and then have 1-2 girls as a backup or replacement that i talked on the phone with/maybe got a drink with/booty call type deal

anything more than 2 plates i had too much time or i was trying to compensate for something through women

 

[Albatross953]

Thanks BB. Just needed some point of reference. Got a lot on the go.

 

[Greasy Pig]

I had five chicks I could call on for sex when I was at my peak. I probably only banged each of them once a month on average. But it was tiring and very demanding on my time.
I'd say two should be enough in order to live your own life as well as having your sexual needs met.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Albatross,
Number one priority is your Kid,Women come and go,but Blood will always be there....Plates,are not so much a matter of Svexual energy as so many believe,but time and energy to indulge their associated needs...certainly impacts on hobbies and health needs...usually routine reverts to a principal plate maybe three times a week and then other plates maybe twice a week,some planetary plates may only need attention once a month,others weekly...so you can see there are no hard and fast rules on how many plates to have...your own energy levels and their needs ensure that life settles into a regular routine....At your age you may anticipate a high attrition level,so always keep a few hopefuls auditioning in the wings!

 

[scrouds]

I really hate to be debbie downer...

But in this day, this age, this anti-father world, if you really want kids, if you really want a legacy, if you really want to be the kind of father that grows successful adults

Maybe you should cut your losses and start over. Use red pill knowledge to choose an appropriate woman and keep a family together for as long as it takes.

 

[Albatross953]

Hey that's not being a downer! If I find a woman I want to be with, without ex issues, or bat **** crazy....sign me up!! Thought I had one, couldn't close the deal. So while I look for her, having a few women around seems like the thing to do. Divorce sucks, but I didn't fire the first shot.

 

[scrouds]

Well its not about letting go of the woman, its about letting go of the kids already made.

 

[muscleman]

I don't have more than 2 semi-regular plates, no time as you said. I have on average 2 free nights/week, sometimes 3 but rarely, so I try to have 1 'a' girl who I see every week, one 'b' girl who's a bit less regular, and just enough room for new girls. So more like 1 plate, 1 kinda plate, with room for extras. It's good to be single.