"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Plates your not interested in will do evertyhing for you

TheGambino

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I got three plates that I seduced.

Asked them out, did well on the date and at some point f8cked their brains out. HB8 was hard to get out with. She let me wait a month, and I minimalized texting and had patience, it payed off.

One plate sees me hang out with other chicks on snapchat but is too afraid of losing me she doesn't say a word about it. She only snaps me pictures of her being alone at home, being bored. (HB6) Texted her two days after that to come over, she was going to the cinema but said she cancelled that to see me, like wtf lol okay.

The other two went out on dates with me(HB7/HB8 way better looking then 6 imo) afterwards and acted differently, trying to make me jealous by talking to others (we were in a city they both come from so they also know a lot of people in the club or bar) and looked at my reaction. I stayed polite and indifferent, it really didn't affect me and I went pissing with a smurk on my face knowing what they were about ofcourse. Went back and enjoyed them trying to get my attention, then one of them went mad on me and the other just followed me around. I ended both dates without going to their houses or inviting them over.

I refused a invite from 7 yesterday, I was hitting the gym I told her and had to work early.

They went crazy, texting that they don't like the way I talk on text (minimal), who the girl was on snapchat, sending me snaps of partying somewhere else with their friends. I didn't react, only told HB7 that she disrepsected me by talking too physically to other dudes in front of me.

Ignored both of them on whatsapp when they came with bullsh1t and now they blow up my phone. Wanting to date me, go wherever. I can even call them at 4PM on saturday morning for a booty call (It doesn't matter when they know your the prize, your the alpha and that you don't f8cking care wtf they do)

Problem, I'm thinking too much about HB9 I dated saturday, date was awesome, kino from both sides and amazing convo's, but the feminist girl rejected my make out try twice.

So now im focussing on myself, put HB9 on the backburner and got a date with a new HB6.5 tommorow night.

Remember, rock their night with fun, escalate, f8ck them GOOD, be sweet and everything, don't be a jerk ofc. When they start to act a fool, IGNORE and they will crave for you. Be patient and don't reach out too much. Twice a week is good.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I got three plates that I seduced.

Asked them out, did well on the date and at some point f8cked their brains out. HB8 was hard to get out with. She let me wait a month, and I minimalized texting and had patience, it payed off.

One plate sees me hang out with other chicks on snapchat but is too afraid of losing me she doesn't say a word about it. She only snaps me pictures of her being alone at home, being bored. (HB6) Texted her two days after that to come over, she was going to the cinema but said she cancelled that to see me, like wtf lol okay.

The other two went out on dates with me(HB7/HB8 way better looking then 6 imo) afterwards and acted differently, trying to make me jealous by talking to others (we were in a city they both come from so they also know a lot of people in the club or bar) and looked at my reaction. I stayed polite and indifferent, it really didn't affect me and I went pissing with a smurk on my face knowing what they were about ofcourse. Went back and enjoyed them trying to get my attention, then one of them went mad on me and the other just followed me around. I ended both dates without going to their houses or inviting them over.

I refused a invite from 7 yesterday, I was hitting the gym I told her and had to work early.

They went crazy, texting that they don't like the way I talk on text (minimal), who the girl was on snapchat, sending me snaps of partying somewhere else with their friends. I didn't react, only told HB7 that she disrepsected me by talking too physically to other dudes in front of me.

Ignored both of them on whatsapp when they came with bullsh1t and now they blow up my phone. Wanting to date me, go wherever. I can even call them at 4PM on saturday morning for a booty call (It doesn't matter when they know your the prize, your the alpha and that you don't f8cking care wtf they do)

Problem, I'm thinking too much about HB9 I dated saturday, date was awesome, kino from both sides and amazing convo's, but the feminist girl rejected my make out try twice.

So now im focussing on myself, put HB9 on the backburner and got a date with a new HB6.5 tommorow night.

Remember, rock their night with fun, escalate, f8ck them GOOD, be sweet and everything, don't be a jerk ofc. When they start to act a fool, IGNORE and they will crave for you. Be patient and don't reach out too much. Twice a week is good.
How do you originally meet them?

Is it through social media?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Problem, I'm thinking too much about HB9 I dated saturday,
Your probably not as patient with the HB9 as you were with the HB8 and don't realize it .... remember it took a MONTH to get with the HB8..don't jump the gun..you might have to wait TWO months for the HB9 (easier said than done I know)
 

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Sorry for all the questions, but...

How old are you?
What type of social circles do you run in? (College campus, down town nightlife, etc.)
26, I know people from school, clubbing downtown nightlife indeed etc. Mutual friends and so. Im an outgoing fun guy so I meet a lot of people and always focus on girls that show iois. I just coald approach them. And girls from the past that I know but never dated.
 

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Getting the ones we really like to chase us means being PATIENT, giving them too much space, playing the waiting game, etc.

If you can't wait 7 or 14 days without hearing from her, without reaching out and without freaking out, she won't develop true desire and she won't feel true emotions for you.
 

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As much as we hate it when she backs away, if we simply back away ourselves during those times (even if they take months) and pursue other women and self improvement, it actually becomes the key to increasing her attraction. Women almost always come back if we wait long enough, but we rarely do. It makes all the difference in who has the upper hand.
Your probably not as patient with the HB9 as you were with the HB8 and don't realize it .... remember it took a MONTH to get with the HB8..don't jump the gun..you might have to wait TWO months for the HB9 (easier said than done I know)
I'm finding that a huge key to actually seducing beautiful women is to make a good impression, remember details about them, and then run into them much later - like months later - and recall details about them. They love this for some reason and see it as very romantic. That gives you the edge over all those hot guys who text "hey let's meet up later".
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Does that include, them asking me, to buy them cheetos?
 
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