I don’t feel like this, no. I only have one slightly favorite plate, but I dont want to drop the other 3. I merely posed the question here to other guys who perhaps have been in a situation like i described.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Plates vs love
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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
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I think your thread would probably be better titled "Plates vs. LTR." "Love" is such a charged word to use and not something I think you are ever going to feel for a plate.
There are pros and cons to both. But generally speaking, unless the woman has come forward herself and demanded your sole attention, I wouldn't consider her LTR material in the first place. If she doesn't believe herself that she is worth being my one and only, why would I go out of my way to give her that status when she herself doesn't believe she is worthy?
You have an interesting situation, because most high value women are not going to tolerate being plates generally at maximum around 6 months before they demand exclusivity. If you say no at that point, they usually hang around for a very short amount of time after and fade out of your life. I won't judge these women you have as plates since I know nothing about them, but it I would say it is very atypical situation you are in unless they are very low quality women.
There are pros and cons to both. But generally speaking, unless the woman has come forward herself and demanded your sole attention, I wouldn't consider her LTR material in the first place. If she doesn't believe herself that she is worth being my one and only, why would I go out of my way to give her that status when she herself doesn't believe she is worthy?
You have an interesting situation, because most high value women are not going to tolerate being plates generally at maximum around 6 months before they demand exclusivity. If you say no at that point, they usually hang around for a very short amount of time after and fade out of your life. I won't judge these women you have as plates since I know nothing about them, but it I would say it is very atypical situation you are in unless they are very low quality women.
As I mentioned before I am not exactly 100% transparent with them, after some time (my experience anyway) THEY just assume we are in a relationship
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Any time fam. Believe me when I say that all your plates know you got plates. It is true tho that actually being honest about what you're doing is yet another pimp medal you can earn.
Whenever a man wants to drop plates he wants a relationship , and thus wants to walk away from the "player lifestyle". In this day and age i do believe one of the best routes towards a ltr is from a place where the man is the absolute price. E.g if SHE would be spinning 4 dudes and you would demand exclusivity you would be fecked. You are the prize right now..
Yes. My metric is simple. Who wants it most. I've learned the hard way that whatever she is feeling today, might be completely different tomorrow.
It’s possible, yes.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Also, connected to my initial question, how do you guys handle having some feelings for all your plates? Naturally you arent going to adore them all or even like them all equally, but does it get confusing sometimes or not at all? Would like to hear your feedback.
Hamurabimbi
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I did back in my Blue-pilled days. Now, if I could get away with it, I’d keep a side chick. a couple of my ex-s offered. but the GF would go ape-shvt iv I even hinted. So…no.