Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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plate-zoning an ex

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how do you guys feel about this? is it highly un-DJ of me? the idea behind this is essentially utilizing the sex with her to benefit me in my life, keep me calmer, more level headed, etc, but also as a wing-girl, as a sort of sexual-capital object, to make other girls jealous and and increase my status among the people that know me. which is highly useful i will add. when people think youre attractive and they know youre ****ing someone that is super sexy and youre stable enough to .....not be desperate? that other women take notice and want to cut themselves a little slice. they have to be aware that you're snack, though. its possible to know yourself very well but people will still project their own insecurities, and so until they actually know you they can't properly respect you which in turn means they can't find you attractive in any sense. i truly don't think anyone is perfect.

is this wrong, am i stupid? what is the issue with this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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